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Old 08-19-2014, 02:22 AM
 
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If she's fed up its not with me. I treat her with love. And I work hard. So if she's fed up, its not with me. Maybe the kids for keeping a messy house when she likes it neat.

 
Old 08-19-2014, 02:25 AM
 
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Look for example today there wasn't any practice. She could have gone home, put something in the crockpot and left to go see her friends.
But she would rather visit until 930pm. Get home , shower and sleep. Kids of course have eaten boxed dinners which I dont eat.
 
Old 08-19-2014, 02:28 AM
 
Location: CA
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You chose to marry her. Did you not know beforehand that she doesn't cook?
Sure, she should do more, if this is indeed the whole story, but you chose this person.

You can hold a grudge over something relatively silly, or you can find real solutions and perhaps have a serious discussion with her about divvying up responsibilities. In that discussion, focus on how you feel, not on making demands or criticizing her. If she is a caring person, then she should be moved by how you feel.

As a side, when dating former boyfriends, not a one was ever impressed that I cook. This is stuff they whine about later, after marriage, but do not appreciate in a girlfriend.
 
Old 08-19-2014, 02:29 AM
 
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I don't know what to tell you but to sit her down and have a mature talk. If you want the opinion of the internet community, I would say that there's something not adding up.
 
Old 08-19-2014, 02:32 AM
 
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Thanks Pidzo and thanks everyone
 
Old 08-19-2014, 02:41 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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She's depriving you one of the two basic things a man needs in order to be happy in a relationship- sex and food. You're probably not even getting sex if your not getting food.

Your marriage sucks, man. Sorry.
 
Old 08-19-2014, 02:42 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Remember it's this guy:

//www.city-data.com/forum/gener...l#post35952887

OP, WHY do you work 2 hours away??
 
Old 08-19-2014, 02:47 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life View Post
Remember it's this guy:

//www.city-data.com/forum/gener...l#post35952887

OP, WHY do you work 2 hours away??
Funny, the girlfriend cooks according to that thread. Maybe the wife decided to leave it up to her?
 
Old 08-19-2014, 02:59 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Watch, he'll come back and say, "Oh, I forgot, sometimes I call her my GF." See post #19 in this thread:

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...g-ex-jail.html

Either way, he needs to stop being a baby.

I mean, I work and have 3 kids. I cook all week. My husband does most of the weekend cooking. But that's how we AGREED to set it up.

THIS GUY needs to either talk to this woman and get a plan in place or accept that THIS IS HOW IT'S GONNA BE.
 
Old 08-19-2014, 03:11 AM
 
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wmns4life. I'm over this topic. I got some very positive input from people here earlier. You wanna bring in an old thread into this go ahead. Yes last week she went to see her ex in jail and I was mad cause she's been hiding it from me. I was typing so fast n typed in gf. Yea people make mistakes cause I felt she was acting like a gf not a wife. Let it go.

And good for you that you and ur husband work as a team. So you have no reason to complain. If my wife worked with me as a team k wouldn't be complaining would I? And expecting your spouse to help you isn't acting like a baby. Its called marriage. Goodnight
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