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Old 08-20-2014, 08:14 PM
 
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Do you hook up? If so, how? Craigslist, app?

Do you find short casual dating?

Do you masturbate?

 
Old 08-20-2014, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Do you hook up? If so, how? Craigslist, app?

Do you find short casual dating?

Do you masturbate?
Well, I watch porn. I don't have a girlfriend, so I can't have regular sex. Porn is my only other option.
 
Old 08-20-2014, 08:24 PM
 
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Well, I watch porn. I don't have a girlfriend, so I can't have regular sex. Porn is my only other option.
Just make sure you don't turn to this:

 
Old 08-20-2014, 08:24 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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I suggest if you just want sex then just pay for it. Know your options, it doesn't have to be expensive. If you want friends then go make friends. If you want dates then go get dates. etc.
 
Old 08-20-2014, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Just make sure you don't turn to this:
LOL!!! I don't plan on that happening.
 
Old 08-20-2014, 08:40 PM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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My imagination is so rich and fertile, there's no need for porno! And the money I save!

Only expense: Crisco!
 
Old 08-20-2014, 09:10 PM
 
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Do you hook up? If so, how? Craigslist, app?

Do you find short casual dating?

Do you masturbate?
Some combination of the three. I get bored really, really quickly, but I aim for more than one night stands, too.

I'll date between 2-5 women at a time, for maybe a month or two. Usually through public social settings (bar, sports league, volunteering, etc.) or online.

While there ARE women out there interested in short, casual dating...they're a VAST minority. I'm very up front with the women I date about what I want, and there's a very common pattern of, "yeah, that's exactly what I want too", but then they get really attached. There's probably a few factors at play there that aren't relevant to the thread. But it's definitely harder to find a woman to willfully enter a casual relationship with an expiration date than it is to find one that wants something more long term.

And when they're not around, or I just need some relief without spending the day together, then there's masturbation.
 
Old 08-20-2014, 09:30 PM
 
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Some combination of the three. I get bored really, really quickly, but I aim for more than one night stands, too.

I'll date between 2-5 women at a time, for maybe a month or two. Usually through public social settings (bar, sports league, volunteering, etc.) or online.

While there ARE women out there interested in short, casual dating...they're a VAST minority. I'm very up front with the women I date about what I want, and there's a very common pattern of, "yeah, that's exactly what I want too", but then they get really attached. There's probably a few factors at play there that aren't relevant to the thread. But it's definitely harder to find a woman to willfully enter a casual relationship with an expiration date than it is to find one that wants something more long term.

And when they're not around, or I just need some relief without spending the day together, then there's masturbation.
And it's not any easier for gay men.
 
Old 08-20-2014, 11:52 PM
 
Location: Tucson/Nogales
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I've been to Tijuana, way too many times, talking to the single men in the bars, and what a dilemma for them, with a minimum wage of $5 a day, too poor to get their own place, and sharing a house/apartment with how many relatives? No places for privacy!

And they tell me, Mexican women won't even look at them unless they have a car, a good-paying job and a house/apartment of their own!

Yes, they have bars in the Zona Norte district, women lined up along the walls, and what are they there for? Yup! To dance with the men, at $1 a dance!

Outside, lots of street hookers, and too poor to even get a room-by-the-hour, I've seen it! They go into a dark alley to have sex!
 
Old 08-20-2014, 11:55 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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My imagination is so rich and fertile, there's no need for porno! And the money I save!

Only expense: Crisco!
You do know porn is free?
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