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Old 01-21-2009, 02:17 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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Yech.
Ya know,women post here asking what guys like,and when they get a flat out answer that they don't like they say we are superficial and pigs and then go to tell us we are suppose to love you for your personality and mind only.

Lets have your guy become fat as Santa Claus with nose hairs that look like a broom sticking out his nose or even your guy come back from war with his dick blown off and lets see how sexually attracted you still are to him?Yes you might still love him but don't tell me something hasn't changed.................
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:19 PM
 
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If a guy is repulsed by tattoos on women, then it's unfair for anyone to judge that. I would never date a guy who was out of shape and a couch potato, and that's my choice. But for others to slam me for that would be wrong. Although I don't see anything wrong with tats, I would never slam anyone for refusing to date another person who had them.
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:21 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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If a guy is repulsed by tattoos on women, then it's unfair for anyone to judge that. I would never date a guy who was out of shape and a couch potato, and that's my choice. But for others to slam me for that would be wrong. Although I don't see anything wrong with tats, I would never slam anyone for refusing to date another person who had them.
I agree. To each his own.
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:26 PM
 
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Ya know,women post here asking what guys like,and when they get a flat out answer that they don't like they say we are superficial and pigs and then go to tell us we are suppose to love you for your personality and mind only.

Lets have your guy become fat as Santa Claus with nose hairs that look like a broom sticking out his nose or even your guy come back from war with his dick blown off and lets see how sexually attracted you still are to him?Yes you might still love him but don't tell me something hasn't changed.................
I am simply referring to the post that said if you were in love with someone and then found out they had a tattoo that you would leave them and just be friends with them.

IMHO that is gross. Sorry, but I am entitled to my opinion too.
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:30 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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I am simply referring to the post that said if you were in love with someone and then found out they had a tattoo that you would leave them and just be friends with them.

IMHO that is gross. Sorry, but I am entitled to my opinion too.
you are entitled absolutely,but then again I would want sex and to see all of her before I even thought about saying "I do" to her.But lets say I marry her and love her and she has no tats.Then comes home one day looking like a billboard covered in them.That would be grounds for ending the relationship as far as Im concerned.At the very least I wouldn't want sex anymore with her.
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:36 PM
 
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If a guy is repulsed by tattoos on women, then it's unfair for anyone to judge that. I would never date a guy who was out of shape and a couch potato, and that's my choice. But for others to slam me for that would be wrong. Although I don't see anything wrong with tats, I would never slam anyone for refusing to date another person who had them.
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That's right. If you have physical parameters that you find annoying, then that's your perogative. I agree. I'm sure that, if you take care of yourself, snuggling up to someone kind of blubbery is probably not your idea of attractive.

Similarly, I find deliberately going to a shop or store in some Bohemian part of town where some alternative dude or chick is going to start drawing on you with ink that can't be removed without expensive surgery to be kind of questionable.

Again, to each their own. The OP asks for what we EACH think, if we care to respond.
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Old 01-21-2009, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Northeast TN
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Ok, fine, if it's gone that far.

However, chances are that if someone is in a suit / coat and tie office job, there is a general "uniform"/grooming appearance level at the place of work, they live in the suburbs and they attend church on most Sundays, they won't meet an individual such as the one we are theoretically describing that they could, and would, reject in the first place.

It's unlikely.
I don't agree. I think you would be surprised to see what is under quite a few suits at the workplace or in church.

However, I do agree with the idea of to each their own. It's the beauty of being a free adult. We can decide what works for us and what doesn't.
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Old 01-21-2009, 04:47 PM
 
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Ok, fine, if it's gone that far.

However, chances are that if someone is in a suit / coat and tie office job, there is a general "uniform"/grooming appearance level at the place of work, they live in the suburbs and they attend church on most Sundays, they won't meet an individual such as the one we are theoretically describing that they could, and would, reject in the first place.

It's unlikely.
You may want to re-think this concept....you are very mislead.....

INKED Inc., Tattooed Professionals
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Old 01-21-2009, 05:03 PM
 
Location: The REAL WORLD.
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You may want to re-think this concept....you are very mislead.....

INKED Inc., Tattooed Professionals
This site looks interesting.
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Old 01-21-2009, 05:10 PM
 
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This site looks interesting.
It is a nice place for those who enjoy the art of tattoos. It also shows that people from all walks of life have them.
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