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Old 05-08-2017, 03:35 AM
 
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Say a woman decides to get all sexy but a man isn't interested in sex but the woman is, he is viewed as awful and having problems. Yet if a man wants sex and the woman rejects, there is nothing wrong with her.

Like say a woman dresses in a scantily clad night gown yet said man doesn't want to have sex preferring to watch a movie, play a video game etc. he is viewed as a horrible and incident person. Yet if a man were to do the same for any other reason he would be labeled as a bad man.

Mod cut.
Please watch.

Last edited by PJSaturn; 05-08-2017 at 07:56 AM.. Reason: YouTube link deleted.

 
Old 05-08-2017, 03:54 AM
 
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If you are sometimes too tired and don't want to have it after a full day at work. Then one day i caught her looking at my phone and didn't even apologize, instead she thought she was right because she thought I was speaking to someone else and the reason why I did not want to have her.
 
Old 05-08-2017, 04:16 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Originally Posted by Robenie View Post
Say a woman decides to get all sexy but a man isn't interested in sex but the woman is, he is viewed as awful and having problems. Yet if a man wants sex and the woman rejects, there is nothing wrong with her.

Like say a woman dresses in a scantily clad night gown yet said man doesn't want to have sex preferring to watch a movie, play a video game etc. he is viewed as a horrible and incident person. Yet if a man were to do the same for any other reason he would be labeled as a bad man.

Quite the double standard to me. A great video on it: https://youtu.be/uxjhVtnPGjo

Please watch.
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Originally Posted by Bane Harper View Post
If you are sometimes too tired and don't want to have it after a full day at work. Then one day i caught her looking at my phone and didn't even apologize, instead she thought she was right because she thought I was speaking to someone else and the reason why I did not want to have her.
A. No, his action will just probably be viewed as odd and out of the ordinary.

B. No, I will not watch the video.

C. Mod cut.

D. Re the phone, I can't even muster up a response. Except that maybe you're right, who knows?............

Last edited by PJSaturn; 05-08-2017 at 07:57 AM.. Reason: Off-topic comment.
 
Old 05-08-2017, 05:00 AM
 
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A. No, his action will just probably be viewed as odd and out of the ordinary.

B. No, I will not watch the video.

C. [Snip.]
D. Re the phone, I can't even muster up a response. Except that maybe you're right, who knows?............
What she said.

Last edited by PJSaturn; 05-08-2017 at 07:58 AM..
 
Old 05-08-2017, 05:31 AM
 
Location: Type 0.73 Kardashev
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Originally Posted by Robenie View Post
Say a woman decides to get all sexy but a man isn't interested in sex but the woman is, he is viewed as awful and having problems. Yet if a man wants sex and the woman rejects, there is nothing wrong with her.

Like say a woman dresses in a scantily clad night gown yet said man doesn't want to have sex preferring to watch a movie, play a video game etc. he is viewed as a horrible and incident person. Yet if a man were to do the same for any other reason he would be labeled as a bad man.

Quite the double standard to me. A great video on it: https://youtu.be/uxjhVtnPGjo

Please watch.
When will this systemic oppression of men by women ever end?!

 
Old 05-08-2017, 06:33 AM
 
Location: Portsmouth, VA
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Originally Posted by Robenie View Post
Say a woman decides to get all sexy but a man isn't interested in sex but the woman is, he is viewed as awful and having problems. Yet if a man wants sex and the woman rejects, there is nothing wrong with her.

Like say a woman dresses in a scantily clad night gown yet said man doesn't want to have sex preferring to watch a movie, play a video game etc. he is viewed as a horrible and incident person. Yet if a man were to do the same for any other reason he would be labeled as a bad man.

Quite the double standard to me. A great video on it: https://youtu.be/uxjhVtnPGjo

Please watch.
Depends. If you're married, it can be the norm, not the exception. But if you're married your mileage may vary.
 
Old 05-08-2017, 07:16 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by Robenie View Post
Say a woman decides to get all sexy but a man isn't interested in sex but the woman is, he is viewed as awful and having problems. Yet if a man wants sex and the woman rejects, there is nothing wrong with her.

Like say a woman dresses in a scantily clad night gown yet said man doesn't want to have sex preferring to watch a movie, play a video game etc. he is viewed as a horrible and incident person. Yet if a man were to do the same for any other reason he would be labeled as a bad man.

Quite the double standard to me. A great video on it: https://youtu.be/uxjhVtnPGjo

Please watch.
I actually agree with the OP's premise. You are not owed sex just because you make an effort to be sexy, male or female.
 
Old 05-08-2017, 07:30 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Robenie View Post
Say a woman decides to get all sexy but a man isn't interested in sex but the woman is, he is viewed as awful and having problems. Yet if a man wants sex and the woman rejects, there is nothing wrong with her.

Like say a woman dresses in a scantily clad night gown yet said man doesn't want to have sex preferring to watch a movie, play a video game etc. he is viewed as a horrible and incident person. Yet if a man were to do the same for any other reason he would be labeled as a bad man.

Quite the double standard to me. A great video on it: https://youtu.be/uxjhVtnPGjo

Please watch.
There is no right/wrong here...it just happens sometimes in a relationship. The only time it becomes an issue is if it occurs frequently (on either side) and no one is willing to communicate with their partner/SO about it.
 
Old 05-08-2017, 08:02 AM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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This thread quickly went downhill and into the gutter. Off-topic comments and personal attacks have been deleted. The thread is now closed.
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