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Old 08-25-2014, 10:24 AM
 
Location: Atlanta (Finally on 4-1-17)
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Is it to a point where it's:
  • working to pay bills
  • no more love making
  • it's very routine
  • boring
  • unexciting


Does this describe your relationship? If so, how did you get to this point?
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Old 08-25-2014, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Sango, TN
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Is it to a point where it's:
  • working to pay bills
  • no more love making
  • it's very routine
  • boring
  • unexciting


Does this describe your relationship? If so, how did you get to this point?
Working to pay the bills. Isn't that what 60% of Americans do already?

No more love making, yeah,that'd be a big damned deal for me. If I'm not getting it at home, and there is no hope for that, I have been known to find it elsewhere.

Very routine? Life is about routine, again, this is something that most people do on a daily basis.

Boring? Only if you let it be.

Unexciting? Same as boring.
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Old 08-25-2014, 10:33 AM
 
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Not really, we enjoy our lives as they are, very quiet, low key, do what we want when we want even though I own a trucking company. I can work any 12 hours of the day I want where I want because I am not one of the drivers.
We are not partiers, bar hoppers, clubbers or drinkers so yes we are boring but we like it this way.
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Old 08-25-2014, 10:42 AM
 
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Is it to a point where it's:
  • working to pay bills
  • no more love making
  • it's very routine
  • boring
  • unexciting


Does this describe your relationship? If so, how did you get to this point?
I have to agree with Memphis1979. "working to pay the bills" and "it's very routine" is most people's lives... in a relationship or not. Most people work, do the same job each day, go home, do the same things at home, go to bed, wake up in the morning and do it all over again. I'd even add "boring and unexciting" to the list of most people's lives (in a relationship or not). I also think, deep down, most people want boring and unexciting lives. Can you imagine living on the edge all the time? It would be nerve wracking I think most people are probably happy with a little excitement now and then; but they couldn't handle 24/7 adrenalin rushes, lol.

No more love making describes my life too... then again, I am single. But if I were in a relationship, this is a big red flag for me.
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Old 08-25-2014, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Is it to a point where it's:
  • working to pay bills
  • no more love making
  • it's very routine
  • boring
  • unexciting


Does this describe your relationship?
Nope.
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Old 08-25-2014, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Atlanta (Finally on 4-1-17)
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this question does not apply to you.


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Not really, we enjoy our lives as they are, very quiet, low key, do what we want when we want even though I own a trucking company. I can work any 12 hours of the day I want where I want because I am not one of the drivers.
We are not partiers, bar hoppers, clubbers or drinkers so yes we are boring but we like it this way.
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Old 08-25-2014, 10:57 AM
 
Location: Atlanta (Finally on 4-1-17)
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Nope.

Thanks for reading and answering the question. Some can learn from you.
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Old 08-25-2014, 10:57 AM
 
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this question does not apply to you.

Pardon my intrusion I will be stepping out now and I sincerely wish you all you deserve....

I did not realize there was an application that has to be approved before posting an answer on a thread that is posted on a "Public Forum"...who knew
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Old 08-25-2014, 10:59 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Nope.
This. I actually need it to be a little less exciting. I'm exhausted.
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Old 08-25-2014, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Minnesota
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Is it to a point where it's:
  • working to pay bills
  • no more love making
  • it's very routine
  • boring
  • unexciting

Does this describe your relationship? If so, how did you get to this point?
Is this an infomercial? It sounds suspiciously like you're about to offer me a solution, not for $99 or even $59, but for only $29.99 if I call within the next 10 minutes.
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