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I met a guy online last July. We talked online and texted for about 2 months before meeting face to face. We hit it off and were pretty crazy for each other. He was over committed (work and social/community obligations)and didn’t have time for me/a relationship, so we parted ways after seeing each other only 3 times over 6 weeks. We didn’t have any communication for about 4 months and then I messaged him to say happy birthday and we started talking again under the context of being “just friends” this time. He wanted to hang out as friends but I was putting it off because I still had romantic feelings for him. Then about 3 weeks ago he revealed that he also still had romantic feelings for me and wanted to try dating again. I told him that I didn’t know because I am planning to move out of state once my lease is up at the end of September. He still wants to see me and try to establish some kind of a relationship before I move. I want to see him too, but I don’t know how I feel about having a long distance relationship simply because there wouldn’t be an end to it. I don’t like the city where we live now and will never live here again and he will never move to where I am relocating. There is a possibility that in a couple of years we both may end up relocating to the same city (a third city, not where I'm at now, or where I'm moving next month) due to our industry being focused there. Part of me says not to see him or only see him as friends. Nothing more. Another part of me is crazy about him and wants to date him while I can and try to make it work long distance. To complicate matters even more, I’ve been out of town for a week and we’ve started being sexually suggestive via text. Not sexting but close. We have only ever made out, no fooling around or sex. Now I really want to sleep with him. It’s been 2 years since I’ve had sex so I’m a little sexually frustrated by this. Help me stay sane and not let my emotions and hormones cloud my good judgment.
Other than that if you want to start something with him then do so, if you don't then don't.
If your judgment was that good emotions and hormones would have no influence at all.
PS ~~ "sexting" (which is not a real word) is more high school than adult from what I've heard.
Paragraphs are your friend. It's absolutely painful to read one large text blob like that. I'd spend some time working on your writing skills before you date again.
Just follow your sens, I always do, it is hard but better not getting hurt with going behind with something not work. I feel for you I experienced that with my husband presently ex. I have moved with out listening to my sens. All the best!
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