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Say a woman finds out her boyfriend is a cheater and they live together, as such when she finds out she leaves all his stuff outside and tells him to find some other place to go. Do you think that is okay, and if so do you think it would be okay in the reverse i.e a man finds out his girlfriend he is living with is a cheater so he puts all her stuff outside and tells her to go live somewhere else?
All their stuff could get stolen or ruined. They might not even have actually cheated. If i came home and my stuff was outside, broken, stolen, rained on, etc I would call the police and press charges.
Say a woman finds out her boyfriend is a cheater and they live together, as such when she finds out she leaves all his stuff outside and tells him to find some other place to go. Do you think that is okay, and if so do you think it would be okay in the reverse i.e a man finds out his girlfriend he is living with is a cheater so he puts all her stuff outside and tells her to go live somewhere else?
If someone is prepared to cheat, they should also be prepared for whatever consequences may come their way!
If the person had solid proof of the cheating, then they are right to kick the person out. So a simple solution, don't cheat on your partner. And if you feel the relationship isn't working, breakuo and find someplace else to live, then you would have moved all your stuff yourself w/o harm coming to it.
Say a woman finds out her boyfriend is a cheater and they live together, as such when she finds out she leaves all his stuff outside and tells him to find some other place to go. Do you think that is okay, and if so do you think it would be okay in the reverse i.e a man finds out his girlfriend he is living with is a cheater so he puts all her stuff outside and tells her to go live somewhere else?
You don't have the right to put someone's stuff out just because they cheated, especially if you aren't the sole owner of the place. Maybe you should move yourself out instead.
It depends on what you mean by okay. It probably varies based on state law, but legally you most likely need to go through a formal process to actually kick someone out if they don't want to leave. I know this from personal experience.
My mother-in-law found out her boyfriend was cheating on her. To make a long story short, the police were called at one point due to a domestic dispute. She told the police she kicked him out but that he wouldn't leave. They told her that since the house was his legal address she would need to go through the formal eviction process. FWIW, the house was owned by her in her name only.
I have known people who have done this in a fit of anger and can understand the urge .
It definitely sends a message about how hurt and angry you are. Planning to do it takes it to another realm completely when the planning should be used for getting out of the relationship in a much more mature and sensible manner, not to mention one with fewer possible legal problems.
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