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Old 09-03-2014, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Schenectady, NY
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It ain't nothin cut that chick off
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Old 09-03-2014, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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But how do you know that the wife was faithful? How do you know after they got serious she stopped? She didn't even bother to tell the guy til now. Hmmmmmmm
Yeah. That would definitely put some serious doubts in my mind from now on if I was in that situation. Something here just doesn't add up.
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Old 09-03-2014, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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If your not leaving fluids behind its not good.
And if you're having condomless sex with someone you're not in an exclusive relationship with, you're an idiot.
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Old 09-03-2014, 02:48 PM
 
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But how do you know that the wife was faithful? How do you know after they got serious she stopped? She didn't even bother to tell the guy til now. Hmmmmmmm
You are jumping to far too many conclusions and making far too many exaggerations.
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Old 09-03-2014, 02:49 PM
 
Location: Between Heaven And Hell.
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And if you're having condomless sex with someone you're not in an exclusive relationship with, you're an idiot.
I think the point was that the OP thought he had been in a exclusive relationship, and in that case wouldn't have felt the need, if this had been the case.

That's how I'm seeing it relates.
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Old 09-03-2014, 02:50 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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You are really relying on a lot of exaggeration to try get your point across.

There's a big different between discussion sexual history in terms of disease, and sexual history in terms of the exact who, what, and when. Not telling someone that they are HIV+, have AIDS, or have another STI/STD is worlds different than not telling someone they are just dating that they are dating other people.
Oh really and why is that? How do you personally come to that determination with someone if its non of your business? Most STDs go undetected.
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Old 09-03-2014, 02:52 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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haha, ok, then you accept the risk of getting into a "sloppy second" situation. Or of creating one for the next guy.
I think i missed something.
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Old 09-03-2014, 02:56 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I think i missed something.
You said, "If you're not leaving fluids behind, it's not good. " I took this to mean you feel that sex is better w/o a condom.
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Old 09-03-2014, 02:58 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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You said, "If you're not leaving fluids behind, it's not good. " I took this to mean you feel that sex is better w/o a condom.
It is hands down better, at least to me.
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Old 09-03-2014, 03:00 PM
 
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Oh really and why is that? How do you personally come to that determination with someone if its non of your business? Most STDs go undetected.
Did you not read what I wrote?


It's none of someone else's business if I am seeing someone else and we are not in a committed relationship.

It's ENTIRELY someone else's business if I have a disease or infection that they could potentially contract and that poses a health risk to them.

Those are two different things.
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