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Old 09-04-2014, 12:35 PM
 
Location: KYLE TEXAS
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Why is the other guy a douche bag? He didn't do anything wrong or deceive anybody.
yeah idont understand that statement either if i and a female*agree* to have sex why is it okay to call me a douche bag even if she was married still doesnt make me a douche bag any more than her .
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Old 09-04-2014, 12:36 PM
 
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Most guys that are sleeping with multiple girls aren't looking for a relationship. Things do tend to come in threes, but this has only been my experience in the college years. Also for the OP I have to say that sleeping with multiple people at the same time (especially back to back days) would bother me the most. However, I would give her a pass after all of these years if you are confident she's been faithful since you became exclusive.
This is not necessarily true.

When I was single I was often sleeping with several different girls at a time, often for years. It wasn't that I wasn't looking for a relationship, I just hadn't met any girls that I wanted to date. I had "FWB's" sort of. They were to me even though they typically wanted to date me.

Not many men don't want to date at all, they just don't like any of the options they have had yet.

My current gf and I talked on the phone and internet for about a month before we actually ever even met. The week before we met in person, I had two girls I had to sit down and break off our "FWB" type of thing with since I saw them pretty regularly. It was more to them because they both were very upset, but we never talked about dating or exclusivity.

The difference was, I had a feeling things would work out with the new girl (my current gf) so I broke things off. However if I would've met my current gf without talking so long, I probably would've waited a few weeks to break other things off to make sure I wanted to be with her.. Like the OP's situation..

As to the wife inviting the old FWB to a wedding (I'm not sure if that happened or someone made it up hypothetically) but I don't think it would be a big deal if they were also very good friends. My gf has met several of my "FWB" from the past because we still remain friends and now they are friends with my gf.
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Old 09-04-2014, 12:39 PM
 
Location: KYLE TEXAS
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reminds me of a old joke

why does the bride smile as she walks down the isle ?



Cus she knows she wont have to give b/j any more
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Old 09-04-2014, 12:43 PM
 
Location: KYLE TEXAS
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i and many of my friends had past lovers at their wedding

its in the past you should have grown past any sexual relationships and still be friends .
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Old 09-04-2014, 01:00 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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reminds me of a old joke

why does the bride smile as she walks down the isle ?



Cus she knows she wont have to give b/j any more
Hunh? I don't get this one. If she's not going to do that anymore, her marriage won't last long. It would probably get annulled within days.
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Old 09-04-2014, 01:05 PM
 
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Hunh? I don't get this one. If she's not going to do that anymore, her marriage won't last long. It would probably get annulled within days.
Also, shouldn't the groom be smiling too since he doesn't have to go down anymore?

I have never understood the "girls don't like oral sex" meme.
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Old 09-04-2014, 01:08 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Also, shouldn't the groom be smiling too since he doesn't have to go down anymore?

Who would want to give that up?
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Old 09-04-2014, 01:10 PM
 
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Who would want to give that up?
Exactly my point. I would never want to give up the pleasure of pleasuring my man.

Men who make these jokes are pretty clueless about sex, I have found.
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Old 09-04-2014, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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reminds me of a old joke

why does the bride smile as she walks down the isle ?



Cus she knows she wont have to give b/j any more

Except for birthdays and Christmas.
A little hint for you guys.. If you could get off in under five minutes (insert benefit of the doubt here) like during intercourse. You'd probably get more oral.... Just saying.

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Old 09-04-2014, 05:01 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Birthdays and Christmas?! Shoot, my man must be getting really old.
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