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Old 09-10-2014, 06:13 PM
 
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Ugh, sorry to hear that. I think "leaving it alone" is a good option. I really do feel that if a guy wants to spend time with you he will make it happen. Surely there are much better options out there for you!

I am so with you on the texting buddy part too. May as well let that fade out.
So would I. At this point, it seems like you might be putting more mental effort into him than he is putting into you. He may genuinely like you, but the circumstances are too tenuous and he sounds like he has too much going on to really focus. I've always been one to say that if a man is into a woman, wild horses couldn't keep him away, but I'm not sure he has even had the time to decide how into you he is.

So, yeah, I think pulling back is a good idea. Hope this helps!
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Old 09-10-2014, 06:26 PM
 
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Really? How old is he? Maybe I should have looked him up while I was there!
He's 43 and a great guy, but has a serious girlfriend. Sorry!
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Old 09-11-2014, 11:21 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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He's 43 and a great guy, but has a serious girlfriend. Sorry!
Darn! Haha!

This guy is coming over tonight, so I hope to be able to get a better idea of what he's thinking when we are able to be in person. Who knows...and men say we are confusing!
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