Men, how do you feel when your friend likes a girl, but then the girl likes you? (relations, people)
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My "friend" tried something similar on me. However, my lady friend pretty much cut him off. Her and I still talk, though. So there is some justice.
It makes it much worse when all his efforts didn't end up applying to him in the end. He got his wife and kid. He FUBARED mine for good! The fact he knew where I was going and what I had to do later is an even bigger insult. Set aside all the money you borrowed and never paid back over the years....hundreds of dollars. He also attempted to steal some of my tools along the way. Had I not gone and retrieved them myself from his garage after I found out who had them, they would be his.....again thousands of dollars.
I don't have use for him anymore......haven't since '07.
It feels like your friend is trying to lock her down, then she tells you that she likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you, and you also like her back. How would you react to this situation?
I don't generally do that type of stuff to friends of mine. However, it's a different story if it's an acquaintance. It's not my fault my acquaintance couldn't seal the deal!
I had this happen to me (when I was still interested in women) I liked this girl who rejected me and liked my friend. He told me he was going to take her out and I said I wouldn't feel good about it. Long story short he got the girl and I have one less friend.
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I had this happen to me (when I was still interested in women) I liked this girl who rejected me and liked my friend. He told me he was going to take her out and I said I wouldn't feel good about it. Long story short he got the girl and I have one less friend.
It feels like your friend is trying to lock her down, then she tells you that she likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you, and you also like her back. How would you react to this situation?
It depends on what I feel the "consequences" of pursuing the relationship are.
If it's just going to be one of my buddies being butt-hurt, than I will pursue, but if I feel it's going to cause a serious problem with a friendship, I won't do it.
I had this happen to me (when I was still interested in women) I liked this girl who rejected me and liked my friend. He told me he was going to take her out and I said I wouldn't feel good about it. Long story short he got the girl and I have one less friend.
You don't want your friend to date her simply because she rejected you? Lame.
You don't want your friend to date her simply because she rejected you? Lame.
Well he always has women to date unlike me I asked him not too because it was a slap in the face and he didn't care some friend. I don't care what people think of me on this Im on my own so I will do whats best for me.
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