NOT ANOTHER nice guy and bad boy thread! (girls, attracted, young)
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I would like to reverse this in a different way. You never hear women complaining how bad girl b***ches get all the guys. The reason is men do not like b**chy women unlike how women like a$$holes.
How come us nice guys never hear form the manipulative, abusive bad boys about how their woman left their arse?
Manipulative abusers fall apart when their women inevitably leave them. I have seen this. They do stuff like end up in jail or in mental hospitals. No joke. You don't hear from them because they are locked up, or on monthlong benders, or have killed themselves. Those guys seriously lose their shyte.
you're not really a nice guy per se, you're masking your hideous insecurities behind the 'nice guy' stereotype. it's rather ubiquitous in the 15-35 males.
Manipulative abusers fall apart when their women inevitably leave them. I have seen this. They do stuff like end up in jail or in mental hospitals. No joke. You don't hear from them because they are locked up, or on monthlong benders, or have killed themselves. Those guys seriously lose their shyte.
Don't idolise them.
I grew up under the roof of multiple manipulative abusers, one thing they always I had that I noticed in my teenage years was company.
Company that I desire so much.
Their manipulation and abuse hurts, but loneliness and social isolation combined with depression hurts just as bad too.
I would like to reverse this in a different way. You never hear women complaining how bad girl b***ches get all the guys. The reason is men do not like b**chy women unlike how women like a$$holes.
You do however hear some women complain that men only like slutty women, and don't want a nice girl who hasn't slept with 100 men. Younger girls and some women online saying they need to become slutty to get men. They're as bad as the "nice guy" complainers.
Hurricane, if you have not already, check out a book by Dr. Robert Glover called No More Mr. Nice Guy. You may be able to find it in audio format as well.
Hurricane, if you have not already, check out a book by Dr. Robert Glover called No More Mr. Nice Guy. You may be able to find it in audio format as well.
There's a forum about that too. I posted a bit there, but it wasn't really my style since I'm not really a "nice guy". I think it would be good for OP though.
Nice guys are underrated, but you can't force attraction.
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