if women are interested they will throw themselves at you. true or false? (marriages, divorce)
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Don't get riled up by rbohm. He likes trying to stir things up with other posters.
bull, i see women interested in guys all the time, and not just the jock looking guys either. women are just like guys, if they see something they like, and if they have a bit of courage, they will go after it. and i am betting that stinkerr has had women chasing him, but he is either too dense to notice, or they were not the type of women he goes after.
You're taking what I wrote way too literally. I also never said anything about entitlements. My point from my op was that since women haven't shown me the interest they showed my former friend then they are not attracted to me.
They are not attracted to you in the way they are attracted to your stud friend, no.
You have to work for it. It sucks, but it's the way it is for you.
bull, i see women interested in guys all the time, and not just the jock looking guys either. women are just like guys, if they see something they like, and if they have a bit of courage, they will go after it. and i am betting that stinkerr has had women chasing him, but he is either too dense to notice, or they were not the type of women he goes after.
So you are not trying to rile stinkerr up eh? But then you call him dense. As for your first I sincerely doubt it.
A few times lately I have posted about a former friend whom women threw themselves at. I have stated that I do not approach women because unless they behave towards me like they did towards him then they are not interested. Yet every time I am told I am completely wrong. How can it be wrong when it seems crystal clear?
Not every woman does this, but a good portion of them do. Though, there have been times where women weren't initially interested in me. Then we became friends and THEN they threw themselves at me. Other times, women were interested in me and I had no idea, only finding out years later.
But, generally, if a woman likes you, she'll let you know.
Not every woman does this, but a good portion of them do. Though, there have been times where women weren't initially interested in me. Then we became friends and THEN they threw themselves at me. Other times, women were interested in me and I had no idea, only finding out years later.
But, generally, if a woman likes you, she'll let you know.
Your final sentence is accurate and since this has never happened to me then clearly they are disinterested. Therefore any effort would be wasted.
bull, i see women interested in guys all the time, and not just the jock looking guys either. women are just like guys, if they see something they like, and if they have a bit of courage, they will go after it. and i am betting that stinkerr has had women chasing him, but he is either too dense to notice, or they were not the type of women he goes after.
I disagree with this. In general, I've found that most women find the same men attractive and only go for the lower tier (in terms of looks) men when they find something wrong with the very attractive guys (players, too clingy, etc.).
Which means they are disinterested. I have believed and seen this for nearly twenty years.
Plus let's say one you hit on is finally interested after you "won her over" since she wasnt physically attracted to you right away chances are it's not gonna last long
Your final sentence is accurate and since this has never happened to me then clearly they are disinterested. Therefore any effort would be wasted.
By "throwing themselves at you", I don't necessarily mean that they will come straight out and ask you to go out. Some women will, but most won't. When I say that I mean when women are obviously interested.
However, after your response, I thought a bit more about my comments and realized that if the guy doesn't have much experience with women, he may not realize when women are obviously interested.
How much experience do you have with women? Also, on a scale of 1-10, what would you rate your looks? And how tall are you?
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