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Boyfriend of one year and i got back together for a month and a half. recently started a new job and is very busy, works about 12 hrs, then goes to the gym . He found out that i had sex with someone else when we had broken up and that's when our problems started. He started being rude and we started fighting daily because of things he did. He broke up with me because he says he is "too busy" for a relationship and wants to work on himself. He admits i was too good for him and the break up was his fault. What do you guys think? Was it because of the other guy? Will he regret the break up like he did the first time?
i am betting he is feeling inadequate right now, knowing that you had sex with another guy after you two broke up. but if he is using that as an excuse to break up with you again, then let him go and dont go back to him again.
Speaking from a guy, we tend to be very territorial. Like someone else said, he may be feeling inadequate. It's hard for us when we know our woman got it from someone else.
It was a bruise to his ego. I hate to let out the secret but our egos are like glass. Very hard on the outside, but very fragile and easily broken.
Boyfriend of one year and i got back together for a month and a half. recently started a new job and is very busy, works about 12 hrs, then goes to the gym . He found out that i had sex with someone else when we had broken up and that's when our problems started. He started being rude and we started fighting daily because of things he did. He broke up with me because he says he is "too busy" for a relationship and wants to work on himself. He admits i was too good for him and the break up was his fault. What do you guys think? Was it because of the other guy? Will he regret the break up like he did the first time?
In the end, does it really matter why he broke it off and whether he will regret it? It's pointless to speculate and it will only hold you back from moving on.
In the end, does it really matter why he broke it off and whether he will regret it? It's pointless to speculate and it will only hold you back from moving on.
Well said. Don't worry about why, and don't ask the opinions of strangers. We don't know. Just move on.
From a guys point of view, yeah he will regret the breakup.
I'm going through pretty much the same thing too. That's what led me here.
In time he will start to regret, and possibly start to miss you.
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