Three day stubble (guy, single, attracted, husband)

[Chowhound]

Truth be told, when first reading the OP I felt a twinge of annoyance.

But really at the end of the day, each person has their own preferences and I don't go around with a 3 day stubble anyway, so I shouldn't get my feathers ruffled.

I think that the OP was trying to say is that when on a first date it's best to put your best foot forward and to her that meant no neck beards......

[Raena77]

If done right the 5 o'clock shadow looks sexy.But yes guys if you want a kiss shave it a bit, it hurts soft female skin.Gives a nice brush burn! O_o

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Truth be told, when first reading the OP I felt a twinge of annoyance.

But really at the end of the day, each person has their own preferences and I don't go around with a 3 day stubble anyway, so I shouldn't get my feathers ruffled.

I think that the OP was trying to say is that when on a first date it's best to put your best foot forward and to her that meant no neck beards......

"Best foot forward" is different for each person. Maybe the guy feels that he looks better with some stubble, or more confident than without any facial hair at all.

I haaaate not having facial hair. Hate it! Hate how my face feels without it, and it's a very rare day that someone looks at my face with no hair.

I'm not angry with the OP either, but she's definitely being super judgmental at just looking at some damn stubble. To me, that's just stupid.

[Magnatomicflux]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Truth be told, when first reading the OP I felt a twinge of annoyance.

But really at the end of the day, each person has their own preferences and I don't go around with a 3 day stubble anyway, so I shouldn't get my feathers ruffled.

I think that the OP was trying to say is that when on a first date it's best to put your best foot forward and to her that meant no neck beards......

Sure. I understand that, and there's nothing wrong with it.

But her snotty, judgemental comments are what did it for me.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by Magnatomicflux

Sure. I understand that, and there's nothing wrong with it.

But her snotty, judgemental comments are what did it for me.

Do you have a neck beard?

[TheHurricaneKid]

I just hate shaving, I also have sensitive skin on my face. Pain in the arse.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Magnatomicflux

Sure. I understand that, and there's nothing wrong with it.

But her snotty, judgemental comments are what did it for me.

I agree... I felt my butt pucker up too... LOL, I told Mrs. Chow, "Look at this judgmental shyt right here."

[TheHurricaneKid]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Do you have a neck beard?

Yea I have a neckbeard, which expands past the adams apple, worst place to shave, IMO.

[SeaOfGrass]

All right, let's all calm down.

[Magnatomicflux]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Do you have a neck beard?

Yes. Here's a recent photo:



Shartak : Neckbeard

Originally Posted by Chowhound

I agree... I felt my butt pucker up too... LOL, I told Mrs. Chow, "Look at this judgmental shyt right here."

LMAO!