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I say that because I just cannot make myself settle. I've had maybe 10-12 women who were interested in me in my life - I even went home with a woman at a bar a couple weeks ago who was utterly infatuated with me but I'm just not attracted to any of them. As a result, I've never had a girlfriend. And the women who I am attracted to? They're never attracted to me
I just don't know what to do guys. I am not unreasonable about my expectations - I've had tons and tons of people, even random strangers, call me handsome and gorgeous. I've been working out 5 days a week for 11 years and I'm not even expecting a model anyways, just a girl with a cute face who is in decent shape. Outside of looks, I have a lot to offer as well - I'm extremely successful (for a man my age), have a fantastic lifestyle, a great social circle, etc...
I am just seemingly stuck in this situation that I don't know how to get out of. I don't even encounter a lot of attractive women in situations where an approach is possible/feasible but the outcome is never good anyways. I talk to them and we get along fine but they're never really interested so I don't ask them out
and yes, before people ask, I've tried dating some of the women who were interested in me but it just doesn't go anywhere. Even if they are very nice and we get along great, the lack of physical attraction just makes it a friendship. There is no lust or romance there on my part and it's very misleading to the other party as she should be with somebody who is crazy about her
Last edited by ArminVanBuren; 09-30-2014 at 09:53 PM..
Dude, you're only 26. You don't run into many women where an approach is feasible? What are you doing to meet women? You can approach women anywhere. Give it time. You haven't met the right woman yet.
Dude, you're only 26. You don't run into many women where an approach is feasible? What are you doing to meet women? You can approach women anywhere. Give it time. You haven't met the right woman yet.
lol @ "right woman". I don't believe in the soulmate nonsense. The right woman is a decent woman who actually likes you. There are 2359205823058232803252 decent women out there. The hard part is them actually liking you
As far what do I do to meet someone? I just try to have a very fun lifestyle where I'm constantly meeting people. I go out to bars/clubs all the time, go to sports events, go to great concerts, workout almost every day, try to go to festivals and gatherings downtown portion of my city, go to parties and social get togethers, etc...
I don't encounter many situations where I can approach women without it being extremely awkward...but hell it doesn't matter anyways, they're never interested
lol @ "right woman". I don't believe in the soulmate nonsense. The right woman is a decent woman who actually likes you. There are 2359205823058232803252 decent women out there. The hard part is them actually liking you
That's what I meant. The right one is the one who's into you, from among the 359205823058232803252.
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Originally Posted by ArminVanBuren;
As far what do I do to meet someone? I just try to have a very fun lifestyle where I'm constantly meeting people. I go out to bars/clubs all the time, go to sports events, go to great concerts, workout almost every day, try to go to festivals and gatherings downtown portion of my city, go to parties and social get togethers, etc...
I don't encounter many situations where I can approach women without it being extremely awkward...but hell it doesn't matter anyways, they're never interested
"Awkward" is in your mind. If you're constantly meeting people, that must include women, right? Keep on keepin' on. Keep working the numbers, and something'll click sooner or later. Stay positive.
In his past incarnations he mentioned frequently that he gets a lot of attention from gay men. They see something in him I guess. But his conservative Armenian upbringing probably makes these feelings taboo.
In his past incarnations he mentioned frequently that he gets a lot of attention from gay men. They see something in him I guess. But his conservative Armenian upbringing probably makes these feelings taboo.
Well hello again brahmabull. I will add this new username to your expanding list, so readers can go back and see how you have been posting the same tired, narcissistic complaints for the last three years. Why don't you just go back and read all the advice that others have given you over the years and save everyone the time and trouble?
That's what I meant. The right one is the one who's into you, from among the 359205823058232803252.
if you're a halfway competent man, it should be more than one who is into you, many more than one actually
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