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This guy has been friends with me for a few months, he was flirty with me at first, I wasn't sure then if he wanted a female friend , or was interested on a fling..or something more. I was never flirty with him, only friendly and caring. It evolved to daily e-mails and text messaging, it seemed to me , that he will invite me on convenient times for him, on the days he could, see the movies that he wanted, invited me to lunch with him and all. I wasn't really sure what his true motives were, since he is a man over 45 and never married, I figured he did not want commitment. Since I'm not into flings or casual relationships, I told him I will not go out with him only as a friend. He never told me what his true intention were either. Four weeks went by, he barely spoke to me all this time, seemed upset at me, and suddenly, he becomes friendly, starts talking to me again, and leaves me a note saying: Someday I am going to marry you...I'm all surprised, since he was never straightforward about his feelings, i thought he wasn't serious about me, but I have my doubts now. is he testing the waters, or he is being serious??Your opinions are appreciated
If at first you dont succeed..try and try again. Putting on my former bad boy hat for a second - if he is a sly dog like i suspect *woof woof* , then he is looking to seal the deal with a kiss, if you know what i mean..:lol: some women are known to quiver at the knees when they hear sweet nothing lol anyway, on the other hand, if he is a decent fellow, it means he is probably shy or not sure how to present his affection towards you. Could be his way of dropping a hint..waiting for your instruction (reaction) to proceed. So basically, there isnt enough info on this lad to give you a solid opinion..Could be one or the other...
Four weeks went by, he barely spoke to me all this time, seemed upset at me, and suddenly, he becomes friendly, starts talking to me again, and leaves me a note saying: Someday I am going to marry you...
Don't take it seriously. If anything, I'd be put off by that and decline further contact with him. He doesn't seem stable.
You talk about him. How about you? Sounds like you are fairly passive. Are you interested in him romantically? Are you even attracted to him? How much older is he?
If a guy left me that note I'd punch him in the face!
Guess you havent seen the youtube clip with the guy from, I believe it was McDonalds , and his reaction to 2 women slapping him... You may not like the other persons reaction..just saying
He doesn't talk to you for 4 weeks, then is friendly again, then texts you he's going to marry you when you've never dated. This is a 45 year old man? Like someone else said, he doesn't sound stable.
Don't hold your breath. Being over 45...Don Juan probably says that to all the girls. He's trying to appear virile and sexually valid... age is creeping in on him and he knows he's not what he used to be.
If you're 35 or under.... run in the opposite direction.
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You may not like the other persons reaction..just saying 
