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Old 10-18-2014, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Pa
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You could have asked her if she had explosive diarrhea? That usually elicits a very positive or negative reaction.
He hates poop.

 
Old 10-18-2014, 09:46 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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It was about a 2 hour first meet and greet. Now the post date contact is where things get weird because the ones who I heard from right after the date I never saw again

The ones who I don't not contact u until 3 days later are the ones I went on second date with. So I will see what happens but as of now I'm focused on Monday's date
 
Old 10-18-2014, 10:09 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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It was about a 2 hour first meet and greet. Now the post date contact is where things get weird because the ones who I heard from right after the date I never saw again

The ones who I don't not contact u until 3 days later are the ones I went on second date with. So I will see what happens but as of now I'm focused on Monday's date
Year after year after year after year and yet hope springs eternal ...
 
Old 10-18-2014, 10:16 AM
 
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I was thinking about this thread this morning when I got my period late. Previous comments about the OP and the date who "may" not feel well. Well I did the same thing to my date on Thursday for today's afternoon Saturday date. I am in my 40s and have never had a late period. I had planned our date well into the safe time zone but clearly that didn't work out. I haven't dated him enough to want to bring him into my world of bad periods so I just bull****ted through it. I am NOT an attractive date today LOL and I want him to continue liking me.

So some of you were right on. I doubt he will dump me for this. Plus I immediately rescheduled. People grow up and things get more complicated.

oh well I'm sure the OP knows what he is doing.
 
Old 10-18-2014, 10:23 AM
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I was thinking about this thread this morning when I got my period late. Previous comments about the OP and the date who "may" not feel well. Well I did the same thing to my date on Thursday for today's afternoon Saturday date. I am in my 40s and have never had a late period. I had planned our date well into the safe time zone but clearly that didn't work out. I haven't dated him enough to want to bring him into my world of bad periods so I just bull****ted through it. I am NOT an attractive date today LOL and I want him to continue liking me.

So some of you were right on. I doubt he will dump me for this. Plus I immediately rescheduled. People grow up and things get more complicated.

oh well I'm sure the OP knows what he is doing.


In my case it wasn't another day mentioned so that's why I deleted her number. Plus I felt it was too early in the.weekend to cancel a date. It was Wednesday morning and she was a least cancelling a date for Saturday? So that was my hint to move on
 
Old 10-18-2014, 10:35 AM
 
Location: The Jar
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In my case it wasn't another day mentioned so that's why I deleted her number. Plus I felt it was too early in the.weekend to cancel a date. It was Wednesday morning and she was a least cancelling a date for Saturday? So that was my hint to move on
P-M-S!

Gadzooks man, study up on the female species!!!

Their PMS and bleeds can put some of 'em out of commission for two weeks!
 
Old 10-18-2014, 11:10 AM
 
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When I called her at 8pm she didn't answer and then I was like well after work I will just go to the gallery and get some KFC. But she called back and my ringer was off so KFC has been cancelled so I can meet her lol

One thing I plan to do right before I leave out is view her profile so I can keep convo going.
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P-M-S!

Gadzooks man, study up on the female species!!!

Their PMS and bleeds can put some of 'em out of commission for two weeks!
That is true pickle juice.

I don't recall if the OP is invested in this girl or if things have been extremely new/casual. Meaning, a cancellation very early on is no big deal. maybe she wasn't sick maybe she needed to not share personals whys so early.

And yes raging PMS is a good excuse ...
 
Old 10-18-2014, 11:26 AM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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I get what the women are saying, but here's the point they're missing.


Okay, sure, if she had to cancel because of her period or whatever else is going on with her health, then I would think that if she is truly interested, she would be more assertive and adamant in rescheduling the date.


"Hey, sorry, I'm going to have to cancel our date Saturday because I'm not going to feel well (or whatever). However, I was really looking forward to it. So let's definitely set something up next week. I heard about this new place that's really cool..."

But instead she chooses to be flakey and wishy-washy, which leaves him to have to decipher if she's canceling for legislate reasons and is still interested or is looking for the back way out.

Figures. The onus seems to be on the guy. Even if it's the woman who is the one who should be more assertive since she's the one who cancelled. If she's not interested, stop wasting his time. He would've never had to make this thread if she would just be upfront.

I guess that's too much to ask for these days.
 
Old 10-18-2014, 11:28 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Gadzooks man, study up on the female species!!!
Ah, cut him some slack. He's just months shy of 40 years old, has never had a relationship and never gets beyond a second date so how's he supposed to learn all that stuff when his favorite reading material is TV Guide? Maybe you could help him out with some private tutoring online.
 
Old 10-18-2014, 11:32 AM
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P-M-S!

Gadzooks man, study up on the female species!!!

Their PMS and bleeds can put some of 'em out of commission for two weeks!


Well she can go out with someone else now because my focused has shifted to other woman
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