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The point was that 49er is pushing me, as a dude, to line up with the women he believes are only out to shame him, not help him. Someone that paranoid after just two relationships/breakups does need help. But he seems to've missed the point. But, whatever.
The point was that 49er is pushing me, as a dude, to line up with the women he believes are only out to shame him, not help him. Someone that paranoid after just two relationships/breakups does need help. But he seems to've missed the point. But, whatever.
Oh, I know. He assumes that anyone who agrees with me must be an evil rotten woman. You're just an evil rotten man who agrees with an evil rotten woman.
Care to join me in a serenade?
All I know is that when some of these kiddos experience true hardship--another recession, a serious accident or illness, a natural disaster that displaces them--they're really going to be up a creek.
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Originally Posted by stava
There have been a good amount of guys in my life who have told me after the fact that they had had a crush on me for a long time. I never knew this and would never have guessed it, because they acted so cold towards me, aloof, to the point where I felt like they wanted nothing to do with me. I felt insignificant to them.
They said they acted that way because they didn't think I would go for them and they didn't want to put themselves out there to be shot down. But the truth is, had they just told me, it would have been a different story. Instead they acted like they didn't care if I existed.
Why do some guys do this? Are they that afraid of rejection that they'd rather hide their true feelings no matter what?
Did you ever go out with any after they told you that?
The point was that 49er is pushing me, as a dude, to line up with the women he believes are only out to shame him, not help him. Someone that paranoid after just two relationships/breakups does need help. But he seems to've missed the point. But, whatever.
I apologize to you and Lilac. I'm not a mean person and I don't mean to take my frustration out on you two. I am just frustrated as hell. I put myself out there to those women and they screwed me over. Just because they did me wrong doesn't every woman will.
The fact you are honest about it says far more about your character than the guys trying to be all GQ about it. Guys who say they are/were glad because (insert insult) and feel nothing afterwards were never truly invested in the first place. Do you think some playa gives two ****s that he made her cry for days? He sure doesn't, nor does he often pay his child support or any other obligations he has. Real men walk away hurt!
Little boys laugh about it to their beer buddies!
What's worse is I have a college course with my other ex. She kissed another but never had sex with him. She apologizes to me daily and claims to want me back.
Oh, I know. He assumes that anyone who agrees with me must be an evil rotten woman. You're just an evil rotten man who agrees with an evil rotten woman.
Care to join me in a serenade?
All I know is that when some of these kiddos experience true hardship--another recession, a serious accident or illness, a natural disaster that displaces them--they're really going to be up a creek.
Did you ever go out with any after they told you that?
No you just get a DNR drafted up before hand and if any of those things happens you will be out of your misery.
What's worse is I have a college course with my other ex. She kissed another but never had sex with him. She apologizes to me daily and claims to want me back.
So she never cheated on you. So...that never happened. So what you claim to be your justified paranoia is based on a grand total of once incident with one gf, plus this one kissing thing.
Just clarifying.
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