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Old 12-06-2010, 01:01 PM
 
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What if its the husband that doesn't want sex?
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Old 12-06-2010, 01:21 PM
 
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Ok part venting part looking for what people think, both men and women.
Have been with together 6 years have 2 yr old. He wants sex almost everyday (gets it most days). Now occassionally, IM NOT IN THE MOOD, but god forbid I say no, then he sulks ALL day, choosing to be in a "ugly" mood, staring out the window, miserable look on his face. (this arguement comes up at least monthly)

Im quite sick of it actually. Hes just told me "im not doing this next year" I do evrything for this family and when i want love, i think i deserve it.

So let me ask this.... how many of you are made to feel guilty for not wanting sex? Now keep in mind he gets it AT LEAST 4 times a week if not more!!!!!

How would you handle your partner?
Sounds like a nice self absorbed Guy who only thinks of himself and looks upon you as a depository . Im willing to bet this self centeredness comes out in many other ways too. The sexual union is supposed to be a happy, fulfilling, and concerning venture where it is not forced or demanded . In fact , just the opposite. I think youve got other problems in this relationship besides what you brought up here...would that be fair to state ?
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Old 12-06-2010, 01:40 PM
 
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Sometimes it sounds as if sex was way better before the wedding.
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Old 12-06-2010, 02:11 PM
 
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Sounds like a nice self absorbed Guy who only thinks of himself and looks upon you as a depository . Im willing to bet this self centeredness comes out in many other ways too. The sexual union is supposed to be a happy, fulfilling, and concerning venture where it is not forced or demanded . In fact , just the opposite. I think youve got other problems in this relationship besides what you brought up here...would that be fair to state ?

This is an old thread, but I agree with this.

Four times a week when they have a two-year-old ought to have the husband thanking his lucky stars.

And the whole sulking thing is the mark of a Grade A a-hole. What adult sulks and gets pissy when he doesn't get laid? I've dumped people for that. Sometimes the lady just isn't in the mood. Grab a Playboy and GET OVER IT.

Really, he sounds like a selfish choad.
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Old 12-06-2010, 03:51 PM
 
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This is an old thread, but I agree with this.

Four times a week when they have a two-year-old ought to have the husband thanking his lucky stars.

And the whole sulking thing is the mark of a Grade A a-hole. What adult sulks and gets pissy when he doesn't get laid? I've dumped people for that. Sometimes the lady just isn't in the mood. Grab a Playboy and GET OVER IT.

Really, he sounds like a selfish choad.
Well, i dont know if id recommend he gets into fantasy Porn because thats going to create other problems., but sex is supposed to be MUTUALLY satisfying when youre in a marriage and that means respecting when your spouse isnt up to it a particular evening. This guy is selfish and is going to bring hardship on his marriage .
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Old 12-07-2010, 11:27 AM
 
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P.S. I would say the same thing to her if it were him that didnt want sex too much. Sex is designed to be a MUTUAL thing in the environment of trust, honesty, complete personal disclosure,safety, and respect .
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Old 12-07-2010, 11:41 AM
 
Location: maryland
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This is an old thread, but I agree with this.

Four times a week when they have a two-year-old ought to have the husband thanking his lucky stars.

And the whole sulking thing is the mark of a Grade A a-hole. What adult sulks and gets pissy when he doesn't get laid? I've dumped people for that. Sometimes the lady just isn't in the mood. Grab a Playboy and GET OVER IT.

Really, he sounds like a selfish choad.

Actually i get pretty moody when i haven't had sex for a bit
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Old 12-07-2010, 11:47 AM
 
Location: ATL with a side of Chicago
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Actually i get pretty moody when i haven't had sex for a bit
So do I!!!!!!!


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Old 12-07-2010, 11:48 AM
 
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So do I!!!!!!!



Then we can be moody together
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Old 12-07-2010, 11:48 AM
 
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Then we can be moody together
I've been moody for a very long time!!!!
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