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I met her a few weeks ago at a bar and went home with her that night...couldn't quite have sex but got pretty close. We've been texting each other and she wants to meet up again this week.
Long story short, she's decent looking and has a nice figure (especially for her age), she's also very fun to be around but I'm only really interested in her because I have no other options. I crave intimacy and I love that feeling of a woman is who crazy over me - which he is. She absolutely adores me - last time we were together, she called me beautiful, gorgeous, handsome, great personality, great kisser, etc... She was astonished that I was single. This all sounds great but the problem is what I really want is an attractive girlfriend around my age but I have had absolutely no luck at all in that regard - the women I like around my age are never interested in me. She actually even asked me "are girls your age not forward" and I didn't know what to tell her - it's not that they're not forward, they're just not attracted to me for whatever reason.
She just got out of a divorce so I know she's not looking for anything serious so is it worth pursuing this? I feel like the biggest downside is that I'm going to feel content and not pursue what I really want (an attractive GF around my age) but I'm so starved for female companionship that I know it's going to feel amazing. Do the benefits outweigh the negatives?
I don't know. Show the lovely lady this thread and ask her what she thinks. If she's cool with just a fling with you, and knows that you're only with her b/c you can't have what you really want, then I don't see the issue. You can then be with her, and still keep looking for what you want, but of course you should be totally honest with this woman so she knows what's up.
I say go for it. She's on the rebound and you don't want a girlfriend her age. Its perfect. I did some of that in my 20's too. It was great experience.
I feel content and don't go out there and pursue what I want. I bring her out with me when I go out with our social circle and I can't approach the younger girls I see...truth be told, I'm so terrible at dating that I'm not sure if these are real negatives but I would like to think that at some point my luck will change and women my age would be interested in me
I feel content and don't go out there and pursue what I want. I bring her out with me when I go out with our social circle and I can't approach the younger girls I see...truth be told, I'm so terrible at dating that I'm not sure if these are real negatives but I would like to think that at some point my luck will change and women my age would be interested in me
Well that's a self motivational issue irrelevant to the woman in question.
That is like saying you should quit your job because you are content with your position and won't bother trying to get a promotion.
I say go for it. She's on the rebound and you don't want a girlfriend her age. Its perfect. I did some of that in my 20's too. It was great experience.
I do feel like the sex will be really hot.
She is hungry for a guy who can lay the pipe and I can be pretty damn good in bed
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