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How do you imagine it is possible to get to know someone without talking to them? Do you think the other boys refuse to talk to the girls they are interested in, or is it just you?
I am really not following you.
Speaking of studying, you may wish to educate yourself on the social dynamics of rejection.
Hey all,so im new to this whole girls thing,and there is that chick in my school(other building) and her bus is right my class step,so i can see her,i usually just stand there after the last class and just stand,then she comes,i make a quick eye contact for like 2-5 secs with her and look elsewere and she gets on her bus,i cant simply walk there and talk to her coz i basicly cant,and i said rapist cause i stand in the same place same stance same time looking at the same chick everyday and im afraid she is annoyed or something,so what to do
If she were annoyed, she wouldn't make eye contact with you. She'd avoid looking at you. Next time she walks past, smile and say "hi". Or just smile. Work up to saying "hi". Build slowly, if you get a good, or at least neutral, response.
And btw, why would she be annoyed at just another student standing around waiting for his bus or parent or whatever? How could that possibly be annoying? If she were annoyed by the eye contact, you'd know. Do you even know this girl's name? Do you have any idea if she's even your age? She might be a couple of grades ahead of you, and in a different world.
What do you want from this woman, anyway? A date? Just sex? Stop being a bus stop mouth breather. It's creepy. If you're going to stare at her, you'd might as well do something with your mouth like smile at her, instead of letting it hang open.
Now Julia you know step 1 is to quit referring to any female as a "chick"
Original poster: Quit standing in the same place and staring at her like a stalker.
Either approach her and use your voice and speak to her or go stand somewhere else.
*cough*
I say "chick." Not in polite company, but I grew up with "chick" as a neutral word and use it along with "guy" and "dude." Sorry CSD!
Hey all,so im new to this whole girls thing,and there is that chick in my school(other building) and her bus is right my class step,so i can see her,i usually just stand there after the last class and just stand,then she comes,i make a quick eye contact for like 2-5 secs with her and look elsewere and she gets on her bus,i cant simply walk there and talk to her coz i basicly cant,and i said rapist cause i stand in the same place same stance same time looking at the same chick everyday and im afraid she is annoyed or something,so what to do
Maybe hold a bottle of chloroform while you stand there and wear a ski mask....in July. Oh wait, you said you DON'T want to look like a rapist. My bad.
Ok, maybe just some conversation while specifically NOT holding a bottle of chloroform. If for some reason the "can't" talk thing is for real, maybe learn to mime. You know......another benefit of the mime thing is that you can hide your face and you STILL won't look like a rapist......something to think about.
Hey all,so im new to this whole girls thing,and there is that chick in my school(other building) and her bus is right my class step,so i can see her,i usually just stand there after the last class and just stand,then she comes,i make a quick eye contact for like 2-5 secs with her and look elsewere and she gets on her bus,i cant simply walk there and talk to her coz i basicly cant,and i said rapist cause i stand in the same place same stance same time looking at the same chick everyday and im afraid she is annoyed or something,so what to do
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Originally Posted by storm killer
Lol what?
Funny, ^^^ I said the exact same thing when I read the OP
What do you mean you "can't"...why?
"Can't" because she has a bf or "can't" because you're afraid to?
How old are you? This sounds like junior high school jibberish.
Hey all,so im new to this whole girls thing,and there is that chick in my school(other building) and her bus is right my class step,so i can see her,i usually just stand there after the last class and just stand,then she comes,i make a quick eye contact for like 2-5 secs with her and look elsewere and she gets on her bus,i cant simply walk there and talk to her coz i basicly cant,and i said rapist cause i stand in the same place same stance same time looking at the same chick everyday and im afraid she is annoyed or something,so what to do
Well if you've done this for to long, longer than a week, you're already probably creeping her out.
Girls like it when you show interest, but not to much interest, especially in HS.
Is there a party, or event going on that you'll both be at? Why don't you just ask her out?
Maybe hold a bottle of chloroform while you stand there and wear a ski mask....in July. Oh wait, you said you DON'T want to look like a rapist. My bad.
Ok, maybe just some conversation while specifically NOT holding a bottle of chloroform. If for some reason the "can't" talk thing is for real, maybe learn to mime. You know......another benefit of the mime thing is that you can hide your face and you STILL won't look like a rapist......something to think about.
you forgot the trench coat dummy!!
OP, next time you see her, when she makes eye contact with you, wave at her. if she waves back, then she isnt being creeped out by you, and you have a shot. after that you need to go talk to her up close and in person. if you get that far, you need to be very cool and just make light conversation. ask her things like how her classes are going, etc. you know basic chit chat that you would make with your guy friends.
get to know her as a friend first. that way you can find out if you two might have a romantic future together or not.
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