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So Iv been married to my bestfriend for two months. We get along great but it seems like the Xbox has taken over our relationship. He plays cod for over 24 hrs non stop, kicking me out of the room because of his constant yelling at the other players. I can't even remember the last time we had a real conversation before we were married we did everything together and it was perfect. I don't mind him gaming, but the obsessive playing is getting old fast. I have tried everything from being a complete b**** to being really understanding about it. I don't know what to do I want my husband back. I miss cuddling at night. And being a couple. What do I do??
So many contradictions OP. You get along great, but cannot remember the last real conversation? That doesn't sound like getting along great. You do all kinds of things together, but he sequesters himself away for days at a time to play Xbox?
When he plays like that, is it daily? Weekly? Does he do other things? Is this really a breakdown in the relationship or marriage, or is he just taking some time for himself in and among the other daily routines of married life? What else does he do? Do you do?
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Your husband needs to break this habit sooner than later. Either he grows up and becomes a man or he doesn't. I occasionally game online and never wear a microphone. Know why? Because yelling at the typical 12 year old that plays online games is beyond ludicrous. You're left to pick up the pieces regardless. Good luck to you.
If this is real and I doubt it is, you're in a horrible situation. This man sounds like a caricature from a Seth Rogan movie-you know the lazy, immature, stoned slacker type? Why in God's name did you marry him in the first place? I don't see this ending well.
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and I doubt it is, you're in a horrible situation. This man sounds like a caricature from a Seth Rogan movie-you know the lazy, immature, stoned slacker type? Why in God's name did you marry him in the first place? I don't see this ending well
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