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I really need some advice from a male perspective. I'm actually not even sure if this is considered "going out of his way.."
I have a huge crush on this guy in one of my college classes. I approached him two weeks ago about homework and asked for his number. (This is the first time we really 'met')
I sit in this coffee lounge after class and he happens to get coffee at the same time I sit there. Ever since I first approached him, he has always come to talk to me after he gets coffee. On Tuesday he even sat with me for a little. The problem is that our conversations are not what I would consider 'flirty' just more of a light small talk/banter. (Keep in mind it's around (9:30am) I always make sure to smile and laugh though. I find it interesting because he does have my cell number, but we're not at the pointing where we're causally texting. My question is, as a guy, would you talk to a girl that you didn't at least find attractive? He is the one who has been coming up to me. Thoughts?
It just all depends... there's lots of factors. He could be attached - he may be gay - he may have just got over a relationship that didn't end well - there's no telling... it just all depends on a lot of factors.
Keep doing what you're doing and if he's interested, he'll let you know. Ask him where he hangs out - what kind of things he's into - just first and foremost, develop a friendship and see where it goes from there.
Drop a line about wanting to see whatever movie or doing something on campus; mention you don't have a date and you don't like to do things like that by yourself.
Yes genius he likes you, most men don't go out of their way to"hang"with ladies.
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