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Old 10-30-2014, 03:49 PM
 
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I really need some advice from a male perspective. I'm actually not even sure if this is considered "going out of his way.."

I have a huge crush on this guy in one of my college classes. I approached him two weeks ago about homework and asked for his number. (This is the first time we really 'met')

I sit in this coffee lounge after class and he happens to get coffee at the same time I sit there. Ever since I first approached him, he has always come to talk to me after he gets coffee. On Tuesday he even sat with me for a little. The problem is that our conversations are not what I would consider 'flirty' just more of a light small talk/banter. (Keep in mind it's around (9:30am) I always make sure to smile and laugh though. I find it interesting because he does have my cell number, but we're not at the pointing where we're causally texting. My question is, as a guy, would you talk to a girl that you didn't at least find attractive? He is the one who has been coming up to me. Thoughts?
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Old 10-30-2014, 03:52 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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He is interested.
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Old 10-30-2014, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I say no. I go out of my way to talk to women, but it means nothing. It's just friendly conversation.
However, I'm just one man. We're all different.
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Old 10-30-2014, 03:58 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Just keep doing what you are doing and he will either text you soon or not. The ball is in his corner. I would leave it there.
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Old 10-30-2014, 03:59 PM
 
Location: Huntsville, AL
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It just all depends... there's lots of factors. He could be attached - he may be gay - he may have just got over a relationship that didn't end well - there's no telling... it just all depends on a lot of factors.

Keep doing what you're doing and if he's interested, he'll let you know. Ask him where he hangs out - what kind of things he's into - just first and foremost, develop a friendship and see where it goes from there.
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Old 10-30-2014, 04:16 PM
 
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Just keep talking to him. If he is interested in you its will go places all on its own.
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Old 10-30-2014, 05:36 PM
 
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Yeah it's possible he's interested but really nothing happens until it happens.
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Old 10-30-2014, 06:15 PM
 
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Yeah it's possible he's interested but really nothing happens until it happens.
True. And there's nothing I can really do huh?
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Old 10-30-2014, 08:09 PM
 
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Drop a line about wanting to see whatever movie or doing something on campus; mention you don't have a date and you don't like to do things like that by yourself.
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Old 10-30-2014, 08:14 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Omg 9:30 is so early!

Yes genius he likes you, most men don't go out of their way to"hang"with ladies.
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