Woman living alone inviting you in: does she want to have sex? (internet, reason)
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I am convinced that there are some things in this world that cannot be explained by people who have experienced them to people who have not.
Sometimes, you just need to learn for yourself. This is one of those times.
Seriously. It really is getting to the point on this forum where people sound like they want some kind of magic handbook of translation, when really, there are so many things that cannot be taught, and so many things that rely on body language, voice inflection, context, and everything else. It's called "reading people," and the only way you become good at it is to get off the bleepin' computer and go out and LIVE.
Best response...
Usually it's an invitation to get things rollin' I guess...sex will depend on several factors. But yes, often it ends with sex and sleeping together.
Going to a motel is too straightforward, so going to each other place, well...it's a big step.
I dont want the date to end if I invite him in. Could mean I want sex, could mean I don't.
Regardless, it is the dude's job to try. Seriously, we all know this.
I am convinced that there are some things in this world that cannot be explained by people who have experienced them to people who have not.
Sometimes, you just need to learn for yourself. This is one of those times.
Seriously. It really is getting to the point on this forum where people sound like they want some kind of magic handbook of translation, when really, there are so many things that cannot be taught, and so many things that rely on body language, voice inflection, context, and everything else. It's called "reading people," and the only way you become good at it is to get off the bleepin' computer and go out and LIVE.
I will also "quote this for truth." It's really hard to explain and it's true that some things you can only learn by experience and interacting more with people. Although I am guilty of trying to explain.
By the way... does the dark side have low carb cookies?
I have a question, maybe it's a dumb one, but when a woman living alone invites her date to come inside...does she wants sex involved?
What do you think?
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Originally Posted by zentropa
That would be a dangerous assumption.
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
Not always.
Sex is about communication. Dangerous things happen when one person A S S U M E S that a benign act = sex.
to Z and W you should listen. just because a woman invites you in for a night cap, doesnt mean she wants sex.
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Originally Posted by halfamazing
I totally get where you are coming from. But I have often read on these forums where women come back screaming about how they did all they could by inviting the guy over to her place and setting the mood but the man never took charge and seduced her. It's a no win situation I tell you.
this is also true. so if a women does invite you up to her place after a date, you want to move slowly and carefully. respect her boundaries at all times, but slowly push the envelope. just remember to stop when she says stop.
Maybe... but one thing for sure, go in it without the expectation of sex. This is one area that she needs to lead on. If she is looking for sex, she needs to make it known.....
She just may want to chat a bit or watch tv.... maybe she has a backed up toilet she needs help with......
Yep, it means she wants the D. Just make sure to have her sign the release and consent form, as well as use the breathalyzer you brought to show she's sober, and then make sure to record both with your phone as backup proof.
I am convinced that there are some things in this world that cannot be explained by people who have experienced them to people who have not.
Sometimes, you just need to learn for yourself. This is one of those times.
Seriously. It really is getting to the point on this forum where people sound like they want some kind of magic handbook of translation, when really, there are so many things that cannot be taught, and so many things that rely on body language, voice inflection, context, and everything else. It's called "reading people," and the only way you become good at it is to get off the bleepin' computer and go out and LIVE.
This should be a sticky.
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