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Old 11-14-2014, 02:12 AM
 
Location: City of Angels
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Well some of the girl in the window "Laufhaus" 30-50 Euro places are, though not all. The nicer brothels are quite clean and nicley furnished and normally fairly classy. Go in a woman takes you to a small waiting room and brings you something to drink, the girls come in introduce themselves, they leave, the woman comes back and you tell her your choice and off you go. You are asked to take a shower before you get to it.
Yes, I am familiar with the set up - exact same arrangement in the casa de cita's in my home country and the rest of Latin America. Not a fan. Prefer being able to chat with/screen the girls before taking them. Like hostess bars, gogo bars, freelancer bars, discos, saunas, ktv's, etc. That window shopping stuff in Europe is just bizarre, however. I am fine with fishbowls in a nice lounge setting, but small rooms with a window facing a busy street - I just don't get it.
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Old 11-14-2014, 02:30 AM
 
Location: Monnem Germany/ from San Diego
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Yes, I am familiar with the set up - exact same arrangement in the casa de cita's in my home country and the rest of Latin America. Not a fan. Prefer being able to chat with/screen the girls before taking them. Like hostess bars, gogo bars, freelancer bars, discos, saunas, ktv's, etc. That window shopping stuff in Europe is just bizarre, however. I am fine with fishbowls in a nice lounge setting, but small rooms with a window facing a busy street - I just don't get it.
Those places are the "Fast Food" option- although you can still chat with them... the "windows to the street" places are on small pedestrian streets usually screened off from the other streets where you have to go through a small gate to enter.

Normal brothels, like restaurants come in all price classes. But you always meet and talk to the girls before. Some have a meue with prices others not.
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Old 11-14-2014, 02:41 AM
 
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Just wondering. What do you usually say to them? How does it go?
When I lived in NYC it used to happen from time to time. I just said, "No thanks," and kept moving on.

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P.S. Is it like in the movies, when you reject them they'd swear and insult the crap out of you?
A few time a rejected woman would mutter, but not usually...face it, they got work to do, and they're not wasting time on guys who clearly are not buying. I have seen a couple of nasty scenes, but in each case I heard the guy say something really nasty to the woman and she was not having any BS, thank you.
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Old 11-14-2014, 03:10 AM
 
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@ SUPbud : that's what I mean ...except when one is "in love" (which doesn't happen everyday), sex is a "service" like another one in my opinion. But I know the holier-than -thou , puritans, and many feminists (not all of them fortunately) strongly disagree!
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Old 11-14-2014, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Dude, I cant enjoy sex without love, appreciation and attachment to the person.
You can establish this if you want.
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Old 11-14-2014, 08:57 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Dude, I cant enjoy sex without love, appreciation and attachment to the person.

Ok, so you've tried it, and determined you can't enjoy it?

And you've tried sex with love and determined that is preferable?

Correct?
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Old 11-14-2014, 11:27 AM
 
Location: City of Angels
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There are a lot of virgins on here who say they can't enjoy sex without love (I mean like 10 of them, where do all these guys come from?)

my question: how would they know?
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Old 11-14-2014, 11:30 AM
 
Location: City of Angels
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Those places are the "Fast Food" option- although you can still chat with them... the "windows to the street" places are on small pedestrian streets usually screened off from the other streets where you have to go through a small gate to enter.

Normal brothels, like restaurants come in all price classes. But you always meet and talk to the girls before. Some have a meue with prices others not.
Yeah I don't like the North American/European set up for P4P. Very impersonal, I mean itemization of sex, charging by the minute, charging different rates for different acts? The lack of GFE is astounding. It's just gross and icky.
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Old 11-14-2014, 11:56 AM
 
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Just wondering. What do you usually say to them? How does it go?
P.S. Is it like in the movies, when you reject them they'd swear and insult the crap out of you?
I have been approached by a prostitute in Beijing, China; Krabi, Thailand; and Tijuana, Mexico. But the one in Mexico was actually one that a client sent me as a joke. I rejected their advances.

The one in China didn’t even look like the stereotypical one wearing mini skirts, showing cleavage, high heels, smoking, in a street corner, etc. It was actually in a nice area of Beijing. She approached me and started a conversation. The conversation started to get a bit sexual. In broken English she told me things like “Bet many girls are after you around here…Love your smile…You are a handsome man. I bet you have a big one…I am getting horny just thinking of how it would be to be with you…” until she told me how much it would be to take her to my place. All this while I had a half smile almost poker face. Here comes the funny part, I told her “Oh so you are all horny for me, yet, you are charging me? Shouldn’t it be the other way around?” she laughed about it as I started to walk away she told me it was ok, no money involved. I just waved her goodbye.

For the one in Thailand we ended up going out for like 3 days while I was visiting the islands for vacation. No sex was involved even though she wanted it. That was an interesting experience. Long story.

The one in Mexico was probably a prank or joke a client wanted to play on me. She approached me and did what a prostitute is supposed to do I guess. Talk to me, get all seductive, and offer her services. I rejected her politely and let her walk away. My client was a few steps away from me giving me the thumb-up. Nope. Nothing happened.

I can understand why men would go to a prostitute (sexless marriages, girlfriends are expensive, a thrill, a prostitute might offer more in bed, and many other reasons that can be heard from them) but paying for sex or company isn’t my cup of tea. Don’t know why this is illegal if this can somehow be seen in other settings between men and women.
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Old 11-14-2014, 12:15 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I can understand why men would go to a prostitute (sexless marriages, girlfriends are expensive, a thrill, a prostitute might offer more in bed, and many other reasons that can be heard from them) but paying for sex or company isn’t my cup of tea. Don’t know why this is illegal if this can somehow be seen in other settings between men and women.
This has long been my stance... I don't care for the pro's myself either, but I don't get why it's illegal.
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