Dam I'm in a tight spot! (guy, cancer, daughter, mature)
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And, and, I know this sounds crazy but even if I have the worst possible outcome I will be glad this happened to me b/c I'm happier and more centered than I was a year ago and more emotionally mature and I'm having a lot more fun.
Thanks LM! I never realized how much people care until I started this thread and it has been really heartwarming to know that I can have friends w/o having the faintest idea of what they look like, lol.
The update is that I'm still spending hours on the phone with both men. I have a date with man #2 on Saturday and plan to get kissed, lol--I should have a much better idea of the chemistry from then. Then I will see man #1 at a dance that night and will have more information yet, but I'm leaning towards man #2--he has some fine qualities that I'm looking for in a man. Both do really, but this one just a bit more I think. I'll come back and let you all know how it all shakes out.
Update: I had an awesome date with man #2 yesterday. We didn't do much--just had breakfast and then did some Xmas shopping. We even went to the fish market and looked at all the different kinds of seafood as we both like to cook. Lots of chemistry and connected feelings--we both felt very comfortable and he is a great kisser lol. So, not so difficult to make a choice after all lol. He asked me if I'd go out on another date with him and I kind of laughed b/c we already have another one lined up for next Saturday.
That's great, stepka! Thanks for posting the update. Hope everything goes well on your next date. By the way, what kind of fish are available at a fish market in the middle of the US? I know its off topic, but just curious.
That's great, stepka! Thanks for posting the update. Hope everything goes well on your next date. By the way, what kind of fish are available at a fish market in the middle of the US? I know its off topic, but just curious.
Thanks had another awesome date with him last night. I really like this one. About the fish mkt--just about anything and so much I'd never heard of since it was an oriental market. Most of it was really fresh too. They fly it in daily and it was a reminder of how much healthier the food is in other cultures.
Thanks guys, things are going swimmingly with man #2 and man #1 seems to be less interested so I may not even have to deal with hurt feelings.
Ok, gotta funny here--well you guys will think it funny anyway. I wrote a sexy email to man #2 this evening and didn't realize that I'd also included another recipient with the same first name. He is a church administrator--not for my little church, but for the national denomination. I am not even kidding.
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