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Old 11-16-2014, 07:45 AM
 
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He has issues deep down.

That has nothing to do with you.
If you cannot commit to this type of person
Leave with your head held high and dignity still intact, cause that will dwindle over time.
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Old 11-16-2014, 11:21 AM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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3 months into a relationship is nothing. Here is how I observed new relationships from friends who are dating.

The first 1-2 months are what I call the honeymoon period. That's the lovey dovey I'm perfect stage , I have no faults I'm PERFECT for you and you for me.
The second 3-4 months are the im still on my best behavior ( mostly) but I'm gonna go back to my old routines and see how much I can push it. May have done complaints about the SO behavior, choices and idiosyncrasies. I'm gonna start hanging with my people again
The third 5-6 months people are settling in their old routines, calling friends and routine sets in. They start doing what they want

There may be some overlap or shortened or lengthier times but by month 6-7-8you get to start knowing the real person under the facade. When I hear we dated for 3 months we know everything about each other I lsugh. You know about 2-3% of that person and even that it's what they want you to know.

If you're in a loving caring relationship, there is no need to go talk/cybersex naked women online. If you need to do those things then something is missing in the relationship.
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Old 11-16-2014, 12:44 PM
 
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If you're in a loving caring relationship, there is no need to go talk/cybersex naked women online. If you need to do those things then something is missing in the relationship.
But whether you have a relationship or not, it is always sick and indicates addiction if you watch porn.
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Old 11-16-2014, 02:01 PM
 
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But whether you have a relationship or not, it is always sick and indicates addiction if you watch porn.


Yawn. Worst troll ever.
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Old 11-16-2014, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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But whether you have a relationship or not, it is always sick and indicates addiction if you watch porn.
No, it doesn't. It indicates poor cognitive functioning if you make grossly simplistic and patently false generalizations, though.
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Old 11-17-2014, 01:44 AM
 
Location: DC
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But whether you have a relationship or not, it is always sick and indicates addiction if you watch porn.
As Spock would say, "Most illogical." Porn is typically not considered to be an addiction until it starts interfering with a guy's social life, his sex life with his partner, or his ability to clearly distinguish that porn is fiction that shouldn't be used as a guide to approaching actual sex.

Data!: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornography_addiction

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