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Old 11-19-2014, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Greenwich
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Yeah it was my fault on that she seems to look past the faults so this time I won't screw up.. I will try for the lips this time around knowing full well I know going to catch her cold
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Old 11-19-2014, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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That's awesome OP, keep us updated to how it goes next time! Did you tell the girl this was your first date?
At his age if he had said that, he'd pretty much guarantee there would be no 2nd date.
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Old 11-19-2014, 04:20 PM
 
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Funny thread. Just be yourself. The first mistake we make as guys is trying to be someone else....Listen and watch out for the non verbal communication as well. She will let you know directly or indirectly when she wants to be kissed.

Again be yourself...and let the chips fall where they may.

Best of luck

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Old 11-19-2014, 04:36 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Give her a hug, when others are talking place hand on shoulder, when alone say something in a whisper, when she leans and says what? Get a kiss.Say I said I should kiss you.

Compliment her when she bowls good.When you are there ask her do you want something to drink? Or eat? Most chicks go for the drink.If you and the others are eating then she will.Be nice to her friend but more eyes on her.

Good luck!
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Old 11-19-2014, 04:40 PM
 
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always hug on the first date! I sometimes even get a kiss on the cheek or forehead.

HUG IS A MUST. It's not a business meeting.

If I don't get a hug it feels like I am totally rejected.
a hug? Why not a kiss on the lips?
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Old 11-19-2014, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Greenwich
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Funny thread. Just be yourself. The first mistake we make as guys is trying to be someone else....Listen and watch out for the non verbal communication as well. She will let you know directly or indirectly when she wants to be kissed.

Again be yourself...and let the chips fall where they may.

Best of luck

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I know all about that non verbal communication lol I missed that one well but I wont the 2nd time

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Give her a hug, when others are talking place hand on shoulder, when alone say something in a whisper, when she leans and says what? Get a kiss.Say I said I should kiss you.

Compliment her when she bowls good.When you are there ask her do you want something to drink? Or eat? Most chicks go for the drink.If you and the others are eating then she will.Be nice to her friend but more eyes on her.

Good luck!
Lol I would never put her down, I was brought up with manners, shes one of the last few younger then me that does have manners.. so I agreed to pick her up tomorrow morning so she is not walking in the cold she did not want me to if it requires me getting up earlier.. it does but I don't mind at all, i treated her to a diner in the morning and she got orange juice, she ran out and she wanted more I asked the lady for more, I assure you I do pay attention.
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Old 11-19-2014, 05:25 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I know all about that non verbal communication lol I missed that one well but I wont the 2nd time



Lol I would never put her down, I was brought up with manners, shes one of the last few younger then me that does have manners.. so I agreed to pick her up tomorrow morning so she is not walking in the cold she did not want me to if it requires me getting up earlier.. it does but I don't mind at all, i treated her to a diner in the morning and she got orange juice, she ran out and she wanted more I asked the lady for more, I assure you I do pay attention.
That's good! You are doing great then.
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Old 11-20-2014, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Greenwich
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picked her up this morning because nothing is worse then walking with a cold... she sounds pretty stuffy right now which has it's own cuteness but she treated to breakfast this time which I thought was a sweet thing to do.
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Old 11-20-2014, 03:14 PM
 
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So did you make out with her or what?
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Old 11-20-2014, 03:28 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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a hug? Why not a kiss on the lips?
Because a hug shows respect and interest.

Kiss on the lips - a very quick one mayyyyybeeee, but no tongue.

He just met her once, a real kiss could be too much.
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