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Old 11-21-2014, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Greenwich
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You probably need to at least buy her a car before you can get a kiss. But seriously, forget this girl, she's no good.
Kiss on the cheek is ok for her she is not big on the whole swapping spit.. seems weird given how it's hard to picture someone not liking a kiss on the lips
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Old 11-21-2014, 03:51 PM
 
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Kiss on the cheek is ok for her she is not big on the whole swapping spit.. seems weird given how it's hard to picture someone not liking a kiss on the lips
The BIG problem is her expecting you to buy her things. Several hundred dollars worth. I'm against spending a lot in early dating. Most women are actually put off by a man blowing tons of money on them early on. It makes them feel like they owe him something in return(usually sex).

Sorry bud, she's using you.
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Old 11-21-2014, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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It was a simple dinner at a Asian restaurant... I kind of hinted to her we will be going here.. She was fine with it..however when we arrived she is like I'm allergic to seafood, what do you suggest? So after the date was over I took her back home, no kiss or hug on the first night just because I did not want to give her any wrong impressions... She thanked me for the meal and agreed on a 2nd date this time it will be bowling next week with my friend and her in which I will most likely give a hug and a kiss on the cheek.

It should be going well since she's good for a 2nd date to happen it seems... The annoying part is some friends heard and they all want to find more info on her and it's not something they need to worry about right now.
Good for you. As for your friends, diplomatically tell them to give you some time and space to operate.

[and give her a hug or kiss for sure on the 2nd]
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Old 11-21-2014, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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Wait.... you bought her all of that stuff and you have only went out with her twice?

This is not a good sign.
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Old 11-28-2014, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Greenwich
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I found out why her so call ex is locked up.. he's gone for 5 years pretty much..

Also this girl acts all nice when it's just me and her but when it comes to being at work she says she tries to avoid talking to me but yet she asked me if I could take her to pass in her paperwork in upsate CT which is a 55 mile drive one way.
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Old 11-28-2014, 10:16 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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I found out why her so call ex is locked up.. he's gone for 5 years pretty much..

Also this girl acts all nice when it's just me and her but when it comes to being at work she says she tries to avoid talking to me but yet she asked me if I could take her to pass in her paperwork in upsate CT which is a 55 mile drive one way.
Time to move on bro!
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Old 11-28-2014, 10:23 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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Good job.
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Old 11-29-2014, 02:35 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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Holy crap this girl is a shopper. . She gave me that coy look today saying she was free until 2:30 pm so we have hung around since around 5am we went to the mall which I ended up buying her a few things like shoes and some sweaters and underwear from Victoria secret. . In all I spent around $230 today... it's a bit crazy she's gotta keep that in check
Aww, you shouldn't have to buy her anything. =c(
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Old 11-29-2014, 08:55 AM
 
Location: Pa
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She's using you big time! Run!
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Old 11-29-2014, 09:06 AM
 
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WAIT A MINUTE, WAIT A MINUTE, STOP THE EXECUTION! You just dropped over two hundo at the mall on this chick (totally didn't see this originally) and she "doesn't do kisses"?!?!?!?!?!?!?! NO NO NO NO NO A THOUSAND TIMES NO!

This is a first, I am going to tell you what to do, this is not a suggestion, you are being told. Take your cell phone, hit "contacts" go down to her name, hit the function key, hit "delete." Unfriend her on facebook, never think of her again, and give her a bad review on Yelp. You are in big trouble if you don't do this, as we all will check up on you!
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