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Old 11-18-2014, 08:19 PM
 
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Why is it so hard to believe that some guys just didn't have the opportunity to have relationships, sex, etc.

 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:26 PM
 
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Oh trust me, we believe you alright.
 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:31 PM
 
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I definitely can see why some posters have a hard time with dating, based on the thoughts, beliefs and mental quirks they express in their posts. It becomes very clear that their major issue is not looks, height or money.
 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Why is it so hard to believe that some guys just didn't have the opportunity to have relationships, sex, etc.
It's not hard to believe that some of the men here have had no relationship experience whatsoever. However, it is hard to believe that they didn't have any opportunities.
 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:36 PM
 
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Oh I completely believe they had no opportunities based purely on their incessant negativity towards women.

Last edited by Djuna; 11-18-2014 at 08:37 PM.. Reason: Drunk posting
 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:39 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Oh I completely believe they had no opportunities based purely on their incessant negativity towards women.
Well, there is that…
 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:41 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I believe they're are multiple reasons for each individual.
 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:42 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Meh...I'm not going to call BS on something if I don't really know what happened. Anything is possible.

However, if that truly is your experience don't worry about proving it to other people. If they are set in their ways, or their mind is made up, then they won't believe you.

It's not worth it.
 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:42 PM
 
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The part I don't understand about it is how they can blame women for their own lack of success when they haven't tried to date or tried once or twice and gave up.
I also do not remember meeting anyone who did not have the time to date or go out with friends even just a few times.
 
Old 11-18-2014, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Canada
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I don't think anyone disputes that it occurs, but rather it's not the norm.
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