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1. Smoking (I once kissed a guy who smoked, many years ago. NEVER again).
2. Excessive drinking
3. Poor personal hygiene
4. Sedentary/unhealthy lifestyle
5. Limited intelligence
6. Bad manners (good manners say a LOT about a man, and poor manners say even more)
7. Stubborn/inflexible tendencies
8. Excessive tattoos/piercings
9. Poor conversation/social skills
10. Self-absorption/selfishness
11. Questionable moral character
12. Unsociable nature
13. Immaturity
14. Insensitivity/lack of emotional intelligence
15. Bad grammar
16. Soft, doughy body (not looking for a muscle man, but one who is reasonably fit and active)
17. Sloppy appearance
18. Unclean/very messy home/apartment
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Sitting in a chair watching a movie and he makes a nasal sound of some kind,
having to breathe thru his mouth...I knew right then, OMG, I could never be attracted to this guy.
Tho, he is wonderful as a friend now. He got over his crush, he had to.
Cowardice- either with oneself and/or with others (usually the case). Cowardice usually implies that a person isn't secure enough within themselves to step up and face the truth.
I desire people who are honest with themselves and look at reality for what it is, and be brave, courageous and strong even in the face of adversity to do what's best for others and themselves. They could even be a visionary in their own small ways. But, they're always willing to be genuine with who they are.
Courage and humbleness also seem to go hand-in-hand with wisdom.
*Stupid people really turn me off
*Crude/Uncouth
*Sleazy or promiscuous
*No drive or low drive- not even wasting my time
*Porn addict
*Compulsive liars
*Sociopaths
*Narcissists
*Feminine guys
* Men who don't eat healthy or workout, ever
* Anyone who watches tv, addicted to stupid shows.....
*Any grown man who has a Fakebook & has 500 "friends" lol
that are mostly women, or people he's never met
*Men who see themselves as a great catch yet they're really, really not...
They seriously need ego checks.
1. Poorly managed anger
2. Bad personal hygiene
3. Slick, predatory "player" approach
4. Poor dental hygiene
5. Passivity, Indecisiveness
6. Laziness--no job and general lack of ambition
7. Arrogance
8. Commitment resistant
9. Lying and other forms of dishonesty
10.Negative, hopeless approach to life
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25 yr old male here: for girls I'm interested in the biggest turn offs (in no order)
Smoking - can't stand the smell
Obesity - I'm athletic and outgoing
Extremely Religious - Everyone believes what they want. I just don't want to be apart of a relationship with someone who posts every day how "awesome" God is. I'll happily support your religious beliefs and will take part once in awhile for the sake of the relationship, but I don't need to or want to be converted.
Unathletic - similar to #2. You don't have to me a marathon runner, but dear lord, you should be able to go hiking for a few hours or bike 10 miles around the lake in the summer.
Party goers - I'm OK clubbing once in awhile. But if it's your every Friday/Saturday... no thanks
Alcoholic wannabe's -- see above
Game players - You either like me or you don't. I've been played twice now and I have had enough of it. Grow up.
Closed Minded - Be willing to try new things. New foods. New experiences. Get outside of your bubble. I've learned so much about myself and the world.
Can't function without mommy/daddy - I'm super close with my parents. Hell, I was sick last week and my mom came over, made me dinner and then drove me to the doctor. But at the same time, I plan my own vacations, live on my own, do my own shopping, etc. I had a friend who literally would ask her parents if she could road trip with us to Wisconsin. She's 24 and lived on her own for 2 years.... Make your own damn decisions
Unmotivated - Have an ex who is a teacher at a low income school. Although there's good times, she complains a ton about the students, pay, etc. I offered to help her with her resume so she could apply to new schools and to reach out to my former teachers to see if they knew of anything open. Yet, when push came to shove, she was like "well, maybe next year will be better." If you're not happy, change it.
Big boobs - anything bigger than a C cup freaks me out.
*Women who think they know everything*
*Women who talk too much* Be quiet and listen sometimes
*Women who are rude to people*
*Women who hate sports*
*Women who slept around in the past*
*Single mothers*
*Women who don't take responsibility for their wrongdoing*
*Women with bad hygiene*
*Women who blame men for everything*
*Women who smoke* It's disgusting
*Women with an entitlement complex and a princess attitude*
*Women who are controlling*
This and women who are overweight. Yeah, it's not only the guys that have these problems.
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