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Since we are anonymous here, I think I can get a better answer. I have hooked up with women from dating sites before but I was a 22 year old horndog but ever since my last only dating hook up, I have been afraid of meeting up with women online to have just casual sex.
Here is the reason, I am just an average looking, tall, 6'4", great shape and I can get a satisfying amount of numbers. I am talking to a couple decent women right now since I just moved to the city both very attractive. With that said, from talking to them they don't seem to be the type who just lets any random guys hit. Which to me is why I am considering taking it further.
Here is my reasoning. You have these very average woman who are now considered very attractive due to the demand for sex and good looking men will drop their standards for sex. These women get egotiscal let's just say the top 1 percent of men are running through these women by smashing them, this too me makes them at risk of stds since they are sharing men.
I have come to much prefer approaching women in person because the competition is less and you don't have huge percentage of women sharing the top 10 percent of males. Best believe the average guy on a dating website is getting ZERO play.
Is this something that is going to enhance your life in any way?
Is this really any of your business?
Do you really think men are the only ones who are on dating sites or using women for sex only and then moving on?
Women will, can and do use men for sex only then kick them to the street and find the next one simply because they are strong, independent, financially secure women who don't necessarily need a man for anything but sex.
By the way, a lot of those men are "average or less than average" because women will at times drop their "standards" to no standards just to use a man for sex.
It sounds like you're trying to find "nice girls" to sleep with and then dump, because you assume that they won't have STDs. Do these nice girls know that you are just seeking them for casual sex?
For some reason that sounds very creepy and selfish, sorry. I hope these girls are wise to you and escape before things get too far. They may be the ones putting themselves at risk of getting an STD if they have anything to do with you.
It sounds like you're trying to find "nice girls" to sleep with and then dump, because you assume that they won't have STDs. Do these nice girls know that you are just seeking them for casual sex?
For some reason that sounds very creepy and selfish, sorry. I hope these girls are wise to you and escape before things get too far. They may be the ones putting themselves at risk of getting an STD if they have anything to do with you.
Oh, not looking to smash and dump. The reason I am taking them seriously is because they don't seem to be that type(though I am approaching getting more numbers in person). Easy girls of dating sites make me paranoid.
You talk about "getting more numbers" and seeking casual sex. I don't think you should act so superior about these girls who seem to be the same as you. It could be said that you're "easy" too.
I still think these nice girls should be wary of you. I'll ask again, do they know that you're seeking to get more numbers? Never mind that you might deign to be serious with them; make sure they are comfortable with a guy like you. Maybe your "easy" ways will make them paranoid!
Just a bit of advice to the OP--I suspect most "nice" women would find the use of words like "get with them" and "smash" and "running through women" and "getting more numbers" repugnant. You get what you put out into the universe sometimes.
The flawed logic is making my head spin. I am not sure where to even start.
I do not think STD risk can be assumed based on the level of "attractiveness" you rank someone to have, or based on the method in which you approach them.
If your goal is to casually sleep around with a lot of people without building trusting relationships first, your just assuming a higher risk of STD's.
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