Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
My man tracks my cell phone calls, location, and text messages. How can I get him to trust me? I love my man very much. We started dating about eight months ago. At that time I was separated from my husband and he already had a girlfriend for about 10 years. I legally divorced my husband so that I can be with this man. We started sleeping together at the workplace after he gave me some advice about a difficult situation. I gave him permission to be able to use And install a cell phone monitoring device system to track everything on my phone such as texts, exact GPS location, etc so he can learn to trust me. Since we have been together I have messed up with a few things by lying about some serious stuff and I know that, however, he still loves his current girlfriend while he's dating me and I want him to make a decision. He keeps telling me how much he loves me and that we have a magical connection and he also wants to date for a little while before he gets married. I'm trying very hard especially since he's tracking cell phone to be honest and tell the truth about everything. how can I get him to trust me? I deserve him and he deserves me and I need him to make a decision and leave his girlfriend once and for all for me? I'm in love with him deeply and said he can see a future with me and I know I can see one with him at times but I feel frustrated and confused. This story is extremely true and I don't even know how to begin sorting out all of the pieces of chaos...
You don't want to be with someone who tracks your cell phone, and you don't want to be with someone who has a girlfriend who isn't you. You also shouldn't be with someone you have to lie to, and they shouldn't be with a liar.
Why is he telling you he can see a future with you, when he has a gf? Do you think it might be because he enjoys having two women? You shouldn't be falling for this. You're not ready for a relationship.
I know that, however, he still loves his current girlfriend while he's dating me and I want him to make a decision. He keeps telling me how much he loves me and that we have a magical connection
Honey, they all say that. That is the siren call for low self-esteem having side chicks everywhere. How do you think men get them to stay and put up with the treatment?
This AND tracking your phone?
Don't get tricked into degrading yourself. RUN. And get yourself some therapy. I'm serious.
Assuming that any of this is true, that is. LOL
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
