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Just FYI, there's should be an on screen keyboard that you can use to type in the spacebar instead of using the actual spacebar, given if your mouse work.
Facebook is NOT required to be part of the relationship. People have a reasonable right to privacy and if one is not a FB while in a relationship, too bad.
Now, all the sneaky on and off is a bit shady and you guys need to figure what is going on. There are trust issues between the two of you. I wouldn't just dump the guy as you have had your share of craziness.
But you have admitted that you are or were taking medications and wasn't stable at one point. This is a big issue and don't think it doesn't play a role in his conscious. It is not an excuse but it is a factor. Being long distance allows for all types of strange behavior and you need to decide if you can continue this.
Btw, sorry you have had to go through all the BS in this thread about your keyboard. Good for you for sticking around. Don't be afraid to ask more questions- the kid is in the building!
Facebook is NOT required to be part of the relationship. People have a reasonable right to privacy and if one is not a FB while in a relationship, too bad.
Now, all the sneaky on and off is a bit shady and you guys need to figure what is going on. There are trust issues between the two of you. I wouldn't just dump the guy as you have had your share of craziness.
But you have admitted that you are or were taking medications and wasn't stable at one point. This is a big issue and don't think it doesn't play a role in his conscious. It is not an excuse but it is a factor. Being long distance allows for all types of strange behavior and you need to decide if you can continue this.
Btw, sorry you have had to go through all the BS in this thread about your keyboard. Good for you for sticking around. Don't be afraid to ask more questions- the kid is in the building!
And you have every right to get to the bottom of it. There is this way or mentality that I see often especially here where people get a pass. Just cause the person says they aren't cheating, despite what they are doing is reasonable inconsiderate, you should trust that person.
But anyway, I know it is extremely hard since you have this distance and you can't simply sit him down and get him to answer. You are at his mercy. Trust me, I know the feeling. But you are going to have to wait it out until you see him. I know it sounds easier than done but otherwise, you will be driving yourself crazy.
I can't tell you what to do in terms of dumping him or not cause I haven't observed you guys. But it clearly doesn't sit well with you and I don't think you need the extra added stress especially since you have had to be on meds.
I would take care of you first then worry about schmucky when you guys meet. Til then, don't excite the situation and let him be. Just play cool til you get him in person when he can't escape. Then be calm and talk like adults. Hopefully you can get some closure prior to departing.
And you have every right to get to the bottom of it. There is this way or mentality that I see often especially here where people get a pass. Just cause the person says they aren't cheating, despite what they are doing is reasonable inconsiderate, you should trust that person.
But anyway, I know it is extremely hard since you have this distance and you can't simply sit him down and get him to answer. You are at his mercy. Trust me, I know the feeling. But you are going to have to wait it out until you see him. I know it sounds easier than done but otherwise, you will be driving yourself crazy.
I can't tell you what to do in terms of dumping him or not cause I haven't observed you guys. But it clearly doesn't sit well with you and I don't think you need the extra added stress especially since you have had to be on meds.
I would take care of you first then worry about schmucky when you guys meet. Til then, don't excite the situation and let him be. Just play cool til you get him in person when he can't escape. Then be calm and talk like adults. Hopefully you can get some closure prior to departing.
Frankly, just the "spamming" comment would bug me. Oh, I'm "spamming" you by speaking to you twice a week? No prob, homes, I'm out of here.
But that's just me. I'm kind of a witch with a B.
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