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Dump him. He adjusts his settings so you can't see a lot of things?
Forget him.
One thing I've noticed about people's FB pages: women almost always have photos of themselves with their SO. Men very rarely do. I wonder what that's about.
Sorry...it's one of those things things that shouldn't be a big deal...and he's made it into a big deal. If he can't even be your friend, what's the point of being the secret gf?
my friend does not want his gf to be on his facebook. And since i know my friend, i seriously doubt the reason is because he is unfaithful. He thinks its bad luck for him to add her on facebook.
Personally, my relationships are my personal business and I wouldn't feel the need to have my relationship details on social media. I also feel if it's on again off again it is so much stress and distress to put out there for public consumption. If it's a solid relationship, you speak to each other all the time anyway is it necessary to broadcast or have that secondary public communication?
Frankly, I think FB is good if you have a lot of friends spread out and you want to keep in touch with them, but as far as people you see all the time anyway I don't see the point. I have to add the disclaimer I do not have FB and I haven't found it necessary and have no inclinations to make all details of my friendships and various dating and relationships public.
That said, I think the main issue for you and your 'other' is that it's on again, off again and not a solid relationship which may be his having misgivings about putting it all on display.
Half the world is in famine. And meanwhile a poor girl is devastated her BF didn't add her as a friend on facebook.
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