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It's odd that he asked to meet your roommate. It sounds like he felt like the date wasn't a success, so he was fishing for a new prospect. I think it means he's not that into you.
lol, i thought it might be a ploy to get inside... agree,no response probably means he's not into it.. but only one way to find out...
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
But you could text on Friday to ask how his Thanksgiving was, and to say you had a boring time with your parents, or something. Just to test the waters, and let him know you're interested.
^^ this, suggest to catch up again. It'll either be yes/no/no response and you'll have your answer.
It's odd that he asked to meet your roommate. It sounds like he felt like the date wasn't a success, so he was fishing for a new prospect. I think it means he's not that into you. But you could text on Friday to ask how his Thanksgiving was, and to say you had a boring time with your parents, or something. Just to test the waters, and let him know you're interested.
Actually, now that I think about it, after he wanted to meet her I started talking about her finance and then he didn't try to come inside anymore. So maybe you are right. Maybe.
Actually, now that I think about it, after he wanted to meet her I started talking about her finance and then he didn't try to come inside anymore. So maybe you are right. Maybe.
I wouldn't assume anything for sure, but I wouldn't get my hopes up, either. Still, it's worth one more try. I think maybe you were feeling awkward part of the time, and didn't really know how to say what you wanted to say. And maybe your playfulness/sense of humor came across wrong. People can mess up on a first date due to nerves, or whatever, and deserve a second shot. They don't always get it, though.
Yeah, maybe thats it. It wasn't that I was trying to be bitchy though. I was trying to make sure that he didn't think I was going to have sex with him right away. I never know how to make sure that guys know I'm not going to just hook up with them the first night.
Just by not doing that. Be nice and polite, and then don't sleep with them...... I'm not sure why you would need to do anything else.
I mean, how many guys think that sex is coming after coffee?
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Maybe he was hoping to come inside. You two shook hands?? Oh dear. My guess is that he has written you off by now. It doesn't even sound like you had a good time, but now that he's not a sure thing you're more interested.
You weren't easy.
Us women have to make sure we don't even come off as such in the littlest way.
Then we are deemed easy. And a man won't take us as serious dating material.
You thanked him later by text.
Totaly nice of you.
He either didn't feel a connection.
Wanted just a One night stand(thus seeing if you had a free house, the roommate question)
Or busy with holidays.
Chalk it up as a date that may not go any where.
There will be plenty more.
Then there will be the right one.
I mean, how many guys think that sex is coming after coffee?
A young horny college guy
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I think maybe you were feeling awkward part of the time, and didn't really know how to say what you wanted to say. And maybe your playfulness/sense of humor came across wrong. People can mess up on a first date due to nerves, or whatever, and deserve a second shot. They don't always get it, though.
