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Old 12-01-2014, 03:12 AM
 
Location: A State of Mind
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InfoGuy, why are you aspiring to attract one of the most attractive women? That's a pretty small pool of potential candidates. Why not look for women that you share common interests with and get along with? When people get along and have a lot to talk about with each other, money and those other things don't matter so much.
Yes. It's kind of sad that there exists this standard and that it is assumed this perfect looking person will also possess a perfect personality and character, besides. This is the fantasy. As mentioned here, all anyone needs to do is look around in public to see how most people and couples look. Another point - some very attractive people can become very ugly, once you know them.
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Old 12-01-2014, 03:16 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Some are nice, some are not, and with the right man, any woman can be in a serious relationship.
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Old 12-01-2014, 03:37 AM
 
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The point, this dude had it all, charm, looks, charisma, a sort of genuine humility.... things that I admire the hell out of.....

Again, the reason I'm brining this up is when you meet someone who is good looking and when they have a little humility and some actual personality... good lord... hell of a combination.....
It is. Confidence is appealing, but appearances can be decieving. I will tell you, there is not a person on the planet who is not flawed in some way. If you would live with this person, you would find out.
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Old 12-01-2014, 03:39 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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It is. Confidence is appealing, but appearances can be decieving. I will tell you, there is not a person on the planet who is not flawed in some way. If you would live with this person, you would find out.
True... no one walks on water... maybe Jesus, but I wasn't there to see it......
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Old 12-01-2014, 03:47 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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True... no one walks on water... maybe Jesus, but I wasn't there to see it......
And even then, he could turn water into wine. Who needs attractive people when you have enough wine?
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Old 12-01-2014, 04:00 AM
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In the early stages of the relationship you have to be willing to share them with other people. Not just other men but everyone. People like to be seen with attractive people. One of my old girl friends was what people would have considered attractive and it took a while before I could see her when I wanted to. Once they find something unique about you that they can't get from everyone else you can get more of their time and eventually be in a relationship.
I even had a buddy who was close to me and if we could hang out one afternoon every other month that was pretty good. He probably had three or four girl friends that I knew of as well as other guys who wanted to be seen with him.
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Old 12-01-2014, 06:06 AM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Let's see. One was always on the look out for another potential bf. One was clearly not very smart. The last one I'll mention is a woman that actually refused a lot of dates from guys. She was looking for a big fish and eventually married one. I learned to not bother with these types. For most guys, they're a waste of time and effort. Plus, even if you get one, other guys are constantly hitting on them. PIA.
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Old 12-01-2014, 06:14 AM
 
Location: D.C.
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I've dated several that were really attractive. One was pretty mean-spirited and nasty. Didn't date her very long. The other was one of the kindest people I have ever met, was with her close to a year. So, as always making generalizations based on peoples appearance is not really a good idea.
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Old 12-01-2014, 06:35 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Right, each girl is different but when it comes to how good the girl, it is pretty much standard.
No, it's not.
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Old 12-01-2014, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Montana
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My experience is they almost always have a boy friend already. My record was 16 girls I asked out in a row were already seeing someone.
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