Men: What have been your experience with very attractive women? (date, attracted)
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Yes. It's kind of sad that there exists this standard and that it is assumed this perfect looking person will also possess a perfect personality and character, besides. This is the fantasy. As mentioned here, all anyone needs to do is look around in public to see how most people and couples look. Another point - some very attractive people can become very ugly, once you know them.
Sure, they can become ugly once you know them but they are still pretty from the outside and to others. Nobody sees your personality from first sight.
Isn't that a crazy self-defeating thing? We've had threads where men say they avoid attractive women, because they assume the women will turn them down. They don't want to be part of the line stretching around the block just to try to get to talk to these women, they say. And nearly all the guys here say all women have it easy dating, all they have to do is pick from the dozens of candidates making offers every day.
So sad. Everybody loses with these crazy assumptions.
We have been talking about this for decades! and ever since forums were created on the Internet.
We need some real proof here. Any YouTube videos on this to experiment?
In my experience (and I'd say I've had more then average experience with very attractive girls) it totally depends on the girl.
The only generalization I feel comfortable saying is that they are statistically slightly more likely to be shallow and "ding-bats" then unattractive women, but many of them aren't at all, they are sweet, loving, humble everyday people who just happen to look amazing. It doesn't go to everyones head.
And many unattractive women think they are gods gift to men and are total ding bats, so you just gotta take it on a case by case basis.
The truth is, Ruth. 'Almost' all hotties are taken, and or, being pursued by multiple guys (the sane ones anyways) if you're a male, wanting a shot of the title, you better bring more than your spectacular personality to the ring, Lol. These women are constantly bombarded by good looking guys and swamp donkeys like me, Lol.
How attractive she is really irrelevant if the dude won't even take the time to actually talk to her. Some of the loneliest people on earth are VERY attractive.
I can't tell you how many times I have gotten the "I was too scared to ask you out because I thought you were this and that..." it's like they assume you will say no because of your "prettiness" if I say no, it means I am not interested, whether they think I am attractive or not.
Are there any data on this about very attractive women don't get asked out often? Did you mean that the most attractive men not asking them out?
I know you have been dying to know. Well, I digged up a video for you on a woman's perspective. Much of it is all assumption.
I will however say that based on this assumption, and these hot women knowing this, they sort of use it against themselves and can make it a bit more challenging even for themselves as they won't simply go for any joe schmoe... So, although assumed, much of it is them waiting for mister right IMO.
How attractive she is really irrelevant if the dude won't even take the time to actually talk to her. Some of the loneliest people on earth are VERY attractive.
I can't tell you how many times I have gotten the "I was too scared to ask you out because I thought you were this and that..." it's like they assume you will say no because of your "prettiness" if I say no, it means I am not interested, whether they think I am attractive or not.
At the end of the day, it really comes down to numbers. It's a number's game for guys since girls rarely ask guys out.
If a guy asked out 1,000 attractive women of his choice, he should be able to get one yes. It may take some time but if he truly wants that girl then he should pursue it.
I know you have been dying to know. Well, I digged up a video for you on a woman's perspective. Much of it is all assumption.
I will however say that based on this assumption, and these hot women knowing this, they sort of use it against themselves and can make it a bit more challenging even for themselves as they won't simply go for any joe schmoe... So, although assumed, much of it is them waiting for mister right IMO.
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