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Tell him, "Sorry - it's a medium!" & that the shirt is sooo awesome you're going to keep it! Then, a week later, casually post a picture of yourself wearing it on fb - but first, cut out the neckline and sleeves to feminize the crap out of it! Don't be a doormat for a dingbat.
Earlier this year, I met a guy that I was attracted to but unfortunately, he lived in a different state.
I told him I'd be interested in hanging out if he ever came back in town. He said he was down to hang out and that he came back into town often.
Well... he came back into town numerous times but never reached out to me to hang out. I got random texts here and there about the college basketball team we really like, but never an invite to hang out....
Considering the "numerous times" it should have been obvious that he had virtually no interest, and you should have blocked the number. Do it now, and enjoy the shirt.
Well if you do give him the shirt and he sweet talks you that day, you'll probably end up sleeping with him to resolve the cognitive dissonance for going through so much trouble for a jerk.
No I wouldn't get him the shirt, and I'd also not talk to him anymore. Seems like a selfish a hole to me. Did he even ask how you were doing or how things were going in your life?
No I wouldn't get him the shirt, and I'd also not talk to him anymore. Seems like a selfish a hole to me. Did he even ask how you were doing or how things were going in your life?
I was wondering the same thing. It sounded like his contact was all about the shirt.
Earlier this year, I met a guy that I was attracted to but unfortunately, he lived in a different state.
I told him I'd be interested in hanging out if he ever came back in town. He said he was down to hang out and that he came back into town often.
Well... he came back into town numerous times but never reached out to me to hang out. I got random texts here and there about the college basketball team we really like, but never an invite to hang out.
Last night I was playing my flag football game and checked my phone at half time and saw this guy had texted me. He started off by asking if I was at the basketball game (our college team was playing) and when I said no, he responded "Dang - I was going to see if you could grab me one of those shirts (they had given out shirts to everyone in attendance). At first, it didn't bother me. I told him my mom was probably there and that I could see if she could grab him one. Instead of "Thanks" or "I really appreciate it", he starts asking what size and that he can't wear a medium so make sure its not a medium.
I started to get annoyed because I'm like bro, you never call me or anything when you're in town and now you're contacting me being bossy about wanting my mom to grab you a free tshirt?! She doesn't even know you.
When my mom confirmed she would grab a shirt, I told him and his response was "Cool - I'll be in town this weekend and I can get it from you". I responded that I wouldn't see my mom until Sunday.
His response?
That's cool - I'll hit you up on Sunday.
Um - FU buddy - seriously.
Should I still give him the shirt??
I wouldn't waste a second on this guy. Just text him you gave the shirt to someone else and then lose his number, what a user
I was wondering the same thing. It sounded like his contact was all about the shirt.
No, he definitely did not. Any contact from him is in regards to the team we like.
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Then, a week later, casually post a picture of yourself wearing it on fb - but first, cut out the neckline and sleeves to feminize the crap out of it! 
Don't be a doormat for a dingbat. 
