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Me and my bf of 5 years broke up a while ago. 2 months after completly no talking, he texted me telling me that he missed me and wanted to see me. We met the next day, that's when he told me he was seeing someone. I was devestated, he kept saying it's not serious and wanted to have sex with me. I told him if we are gonna do this he needs to break up with the person he's dating. He agreed, reluctantly. And we had sex.
The next day, he told me they broke up. As I found out what happened was, he went to see her, they had sex and the woman brought up moving in with him. He freaked out and declined, she got upset and SHE broke up with him.
After that, he and I got back together. The woman he was seeing prob regretted to break up with him and started to text him, telling him she's missing him. I ask him to tell her that he's with me now. But he refuses to do so, saying he doesn't want hurt her and would just ignore her texts.
This woman also left a jacket in his car, he said he'll see her again to bring it to her. I ask him to mail it and he thinks it's not a nice thing to do and insists on bringing to her in person. I'm really bothered by this then he said maybe he can meet her sister to give it to her sister. Oh and he doesn't know the sister address and have to contact this person to know the sister address.
Am I being a pain on the ass to be upset about this jacket thing ( and not telling her he's with me now) or the way he's handling it just not normal? He swears there's nothing going on with her and he just wants to be with me.
Last edited by Runlikethewind11; 12-13-2014 at 06:51 PM..
Why are you tolerating his indecisive and selfish back and forth? He breaks up with you, goes to her, breaks up with her, goes back to you, and so on and so on.
Why are you putting up with this? Do as your user name says and move on!
Why are you tolerating his indecisive and selfish back and forth? He breaks up with you, goes to her, breaks up with her, goes back to you, and so on and so on.
Why are you putting up with this? Do as your user name says and move on!
I agree. And you know he's gonna end up sleeping with that other chic again when he returns that jacket..lol, smh. I would not trust this dude at all.
Why are you tolerating his indecisive and selfish back and forth? He breaks up with you, goes to her, breaks up with her, goes back to you, and so on and so on.
Why are you putting up with this? Do as your user name says and move on!
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I agree. And you know he's gonna end up sleeping with that other chic again when he returns that jacket..lol, smh. I would not trust this dude at all.
AMEN TO THESE POSTS. OP, time to go. this guy is a player. dollars to doughnuts he is sleeping with her while he is sleeping with you.
I agree with this others. This guy doesn't seem trustworthy. He comes to you, saying he wants to have sex with you, bluntly, while still be attached to this other girl. You tell him to dump her, then you say he was reluctant, that doesn't sound good. Sounds like he still wants her, to date, or for sex. Then has sex with her again, and breaks up with her. But he doesn't want to tell her about you.
He then says the relationship with this other girl isn't serious, but if she wants to live with him, her feelings certainly aren't ;light. So, if he's not serious, he's been leading her on to continue sleeping with her. Because if a relationship is casual, I would think both parties would know it. Otherwise, one is mislead or delusional, and the other has a nice booty call who is in denial about it, or doesn't know. Sounds like this girl doesn't know, since he wants to keep you a secret from her. Chances are, he's answering those texts, and sleeping with her already.
Sounds like this guy doesn't care for either of you. He just likes sleeping with both of you, from what you have written, and he's got both of you snowed.
Last edited by HappyRain; 12-13-2014 at 06:48 PM..
Ugh, why did you get back with him??? Read these parts again:
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Originally Posted by Runlikethewind11
2 months after completly no talking, he texted me telling me that he missed me and wanted to see me. We met the next day, that's when he told me he was seeing someone.
He kept saying it's not serious and wanted to have sex with me. I told him if we are gonna do this he needs to break up with the person he's dating. He agreed, reluctantly. And we had sex.
He went to see her, they had sex and the woman brought up moving in with him. He freaked out and declined, she got upset and broke up with him.
The woman he was seeing prob regretted to break up with him and started to text him, telling him she's missing him. I ask him to tell her that he's with me now. But he refuses to do so, saying he would just ignore her texts.
I wouldn't trust him. He doesn't seem to really know what he wants and sounds like a user.
I agree with this others. This guy doesn't seem trustworthy. He comes to you, saying he wants to have sex with you, bluntly, while still be attached to this other girl. You tell him to dump her, then you say he was reluctant, that doesn't sound good. Sounds like he still wants her, to date, or for sex. Then has sex with her again, and breaks up with her. But he doesn't want to tell her about you.
He then says the relationship with this other girl isn't serious, but if she wants to live with him, her feelings certainly aren't ;light. So, if he's not serious, he's been leading her on to continue sleeping with her. Because if a relationship is casual, I would think both parties would know it. Otherwise, one is mislead or delusional, and the other has a nice booty call who is in denial about it, or doesn't know. Sounds like this girl doesn't know, since he wants to keep you a secret from her. Chances are, he's answering those texts, and sleeping with her already.
Sounds like this guy doesn't care for either of you. He just likes sleeping with both of you, from what you have written, and he's got both of you snowed.
I don't know how serious they've gotten since they only dated less than 2 months. It's werid that woman wanted to move in with him, it sounded more like that woman needed a place to stay since she's living with her sister and shares a car with the sister. This woman is much older than him too probably in her 50's. But he sounded like he really has something for her, the whole thing is just wired and disgusting
I don't know how serious they've gotten since they only dated less than 2 months. It's werid that woman wanted to move in with him, it sounded more like that woman needed a place to stay since she's living with her sister and shares a car with the sister. This woman is much older than him too probably in her 50's. But he sounded like he really has something for her, the whole thing is just wired and disgusting
Based on what you wrote, I thought you guys were just out of high school. He sounds WAY too immature.
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