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Old 12-08-2014, 10:27 AM
 
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LOL, aren't you the attorney from the other thread? Man, just go for it, and instead of looking for something, have fun, without any pressure. If she seems to be receptive to further physical advances, don't end the date, and come here to ask if you should proceed, just go for it......Big suggestion, since you haven't been in the dating scene for awhile.....when you go out, be prepared.....have condoms, water based lube, clean drawers........And be conscientious, if you are about to get into it, excuse yourself and use the bathroom to freshen up....extend the same courtesy that you would want from her.....oh yeah, always have at the very least, Altoids......
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Old 12-08-2014, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Pa
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LOL, aren't you the attorney from the other thread? Man, just go for it, and instead of looking for something, have fun, without any pressure. If she seems to be receptive to further physical advances, don't end the date, and come here to ask if you should proceed, just go for it......Big suggestion, since you haven't been in the dating scene for awhile.....when you go out, be prepared.....have condoms, water based lube, clean drawers........And be conscientious, if you are about to get into it, excuse yourself and use the bathroom to freshen up....extend the same courtesy that you would want from her.....oh yeah, always have at the very least, Altoids......
Damn assuming he will get it.lol!
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Old 12-08-2014, 12:45 PM
 
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But from my personal experiences? You have to be cautious about the "20-25 year old" crowd when they want to date you as a guy 10+ years older than them. I think sometimes they're still caught up in that "experimental" stage where they think only an older guy will make them happy (more stable financially, etc.), and after they're with that person for a while - they slowly discover all the reasons it isn't such an ideal fit after all.
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Nailed it.
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Old 12-08-2014, 01:10 PM
 
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She's been texting and then asked if she could call tonight because that is a better way to start getting to know someone. Because the last girl I dated didn't really give me the attention I want (just trying to make plans was like pulling teeth sometimes and she would take like days to respond to texts sometime) this might be good for me right now.
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Old 12-08-2014, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Tampa, FL
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OP: When I was 29 I met a girl who was 20, and it was obvious she liked me. It sucked because she couldn't even go to bars with me, but she was pretty cool so I made it work, and took it a bit slowly. I was a little nervous about meeting her parents the first time, because I thought they'd think of me as some scumbag cradle-robber.

She is now my wife.
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Old 12-08-2014, 01:17 PM
 
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I have no idea if it'll work for you. Some 23 year old women are mature for their age while many 35 year old men are really big stupid teenagers trapped inside a man's body. All things being equal, I don't think it's a long term proposition but that's okay if that's what you're looking for.
This. ^^^
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Old 12-08-2014, 01:17 PM
 
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That's a great story! Yeah, she is just out of college and looking for what she called a "big girl job" while working retail presently. She's texting alot. The fact I have a good and successful job is probably attractive to her.
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Old 12-08-2014, 01:20 PM
 
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OP: When I was 29 I met a girl who was 20, and it was obvious she liked me. It sucked because she couldn't even go to bars with me, but she was pretty cool so I made it work, and took it a bit slowly. I was a little nervous about meeting her parents the first time, because I thought they'd think of me as some scumbag cradle-robber.

She is now my wife.
I like this post.
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Old 12-08-2014, 01:31 PM
 
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If it bothers you that much dump her.
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Old 12-08-2014, 02:29 PM
 
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Is that too much of an age difference? We met on Tinder.
Man, I am 36 but I am just not interested in any women in mid twenties. I think it is because of our experience we have been through in life and they are just getting started.

I prefer late twenties to early 30s.
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