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Originally Posted by bestreligions
Agree... The thing that matter is understandings .But I think religion also have some importance..
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And many people do.
For myself, it is not imperative that my husband and I come from the same religious background, because our values are extremely compatible, and in our case, any differences in dogma don't really alter that reality.
With my self-described atheist ex, values also did not happen to be compatible. The differences in values were the real downfall. I respected his choice to hold the beliefs that he did, and I couldn't have cared less about his spiritual beliefs not mirroring mine (I did care that he did not extend the same respect to my choice to hold my beliefs, however).
For me, people can believe whatever they want to believe. I care a lot more about them being decent, kind, respectful people who treat others with compassion. ESPECIALLY when they don't personally agree with or identify with them. My ex was not that person. My husband and I are.