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So consider it 100% over even if I think she can't do better once she gets over the issues I think she has. (please see other thread because she def has some issues)
I am. I see women get messed up all the time with my profession. I think she got confused because I was reluctant at first and she jumped right in. But I respect her like she said she did me. So I don't want to bother her if she's totally over it that fast.
I am. I see women get messed up all the time with my profession. I think she got confused because I was reluctant at first and she jumped right in. But I respect her like she said she did me. So I don't want to bother her if she's totally over it that fast.
Yup. I thought I could do better at first, but she ended up growing on me and then rejecting me. She said on our last conversation she was "totally thinking about contacting me" after six months. So maybe it will be her loss. I want to try and get her back now since I am looking more for a good mother than fun, but all I can see coming from contacting her now is me feeling bad about myself.
She said the relationship seemed forced and she was correct - you didn't have sex until 2 months into the relationship and then only because you were "afraid you'd lose her". Quite unusual that you'd wait so long to have sex with a willing partner if you were at all attracted to her. Apparently you aren't, except in some theoretical/intellectual manner. Let it and let her go.
But my perspective is first: I want to make sure she doesn't have any STDs. And second I want to make sure she's not some crazy person. Don't you think that is legitimate? I don't think she was used to that.
Yup. I thought I could do better at first, but she ended up growing on me and then rejecting me. She said on our last conversation she was "totally thinking about contacting me" after six months. So maybe it will be her loss. I want to try and get her back now since I am looking more for a good mother than fun, but all I can see coming from contacting her now is me feeling bad about myself.
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Originally Posted by returning_to_dating
But my perspective is first: I want to make sure she doesn't have any STDs. And second I want to make sure she's not some crazy person. Don't you think that is legitimate? I don't think she was used to that.
Sometimes your posts are smart and thoughtful, and then sometimes, like these, it sounds like a crazy person is typing, like another person altogether.
Not really. I always want to make sure she is truly clean. After that, I want to make make sure she is okay she is okay she is okay with a legitimate relationship. DO you understand?
Not really. I always want to make sure she is truly clean. After that, I want to make make sure she is okay she is okay she is okay with a legitimate relationship. DO you understand?
Don't do it, man. You're better than that. She's not worth it and you could do better.
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