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Old 12-19-2014, 01:34 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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A guy did that to me once.

Except he already had my number when he did it. He cussed me out for not texting back fast enough. Keep in mind only two mins had went by when he snapped.

I cut him off quick.

 
Old 12-19-2014, 01:39 PM
 
Location: Middle Earth
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I was just cursed out for the second time for not responding to an online dating message. [Snip.] When I politely tell guys I'm not interested, I'm cursed out. [Snip.I just can't win and needed to vent! Who really needs to go through their day with messages like this?! Very bad manners guys! I'm deleting my profile.

Anyone else have this happen?
Tell me which sites you go on and I will stay away from them.

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Old 12-19-2014, 05:27 PM
 
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I have been bitched out for the disappearing or get the "we need to talk" bit. Nope, discussion time has passed. Nothing to discuss.

The best was changing cell numbers. Time to block and move along.
 
Old 12-19-2014, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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I had mostly good experiences with online dating, but nothing really came of it. Met some nice attractive women but most of them were tourists looking for fun.

I went on a couple terrible dates, one brought her kids along, I didn't even know she had kids. I went through the motions and just never contacted her again.

The other was really nice but seemed a little weird on the first date. On the second date she didn't take her anxiety medication and was incredibly rude to our server, random people and me. She apologized for being rude and explained her issue, but I didn't want to risk it again.

If women ignored my messages or replied with one word response I just moved on. I prefer when they just never respond instead of trying to be polite or whatever.

Real life is way easier, I think you have to be confident and outgoing to succeed at online dating.
 
Old 12-19-2014, 06:01 PM
 
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It just makes it easy to weed out the losers.
 
Old 12-19-2014, 06:10 PM
 
Location: Austin/Houston
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It just shows those who are meant to be in your life and those who aren't.
 
Old 12-19-2014, 06:40 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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Worst thing for me in OKC was a cougar offended by my age and women not responding...I guess psychos are everywhere.
 
Old 12-19-2014, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Oh I've gotten plenty of those when I went on online dating sites. Unbelievable..
 
Old 12-19-2014, 06:54 PM
 
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I was just cursed out for the second time for not responding to an online dating message. [Snip.] When I politely tell guys I'm not interested, I'm cursed out. [Snip.] I just can't win and needed to vent! Who really needs to go through their day with messages like this?! Very bad manners guys! I'm deleting my profile.

Anyone else have this happen?
This is understandable for men that constantly send out messages, but receive no responses. Women can't understand it because you all are bombarded with messages constantly. So women are given ego boosts, while men lose confidence and get angry.

You need to develop some compassion.

Last edited by PJSaturn; 12-20-2014 at 01:05 PM..
 
Old 12-19-2014, 07:00 PM
 
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This is understandable for men that constantly send out messages, but receive no responses. Women can't understand it because you all are bombarded with messages constantly. So women are given ego boosts, while men lose confidence and get angry.

You need to develop some compassion.
Stop thinking that every stupid message we receive is an "ego boost." It's not. And no, I'm not going to "develop compassion" for men who act like jerks when they don't get what they want.
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