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How so? I am not broke, living paycheck to paycheck. I also get babysitters at least once a week to go out. I just want to do so on the weekends and not week nights when I have to get up so early.
I have not yet talked to one single dad that was in as good of shape as I am financially. They may be out there, but I have not come across any yet.
I'm perplexed. How is this coming up so soon on a date? I can see disclosing generalities, but not specifics.
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I'm perplexed. How is this coming up so soon on a date? I can see disclosing generalities, but not specifics.
Oh they tell this stuff through text or on the phone before even scheduling dates.
I had a guy tell me last night his exact car payment, his salary, that he has been married three times already, sexually molested as a teen, has been suicidal and in a state institution several times.
So yes, I generally find they tell me way to much information.
Oh they tell this stuff through text or on the phone before even scheduling dates.
I had a guy tell me last night his exact car payment, his salary, that he has been married three times already, sexually molested as a teen, has been suicidal and in a state institution several times.
So yes, I generally find they tell me way to much information.
Well, at least he warned you upfront so you can take a pass. Though he doesn't necessarily have money problems, but problem problems.
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How so? I am not broke, living paycheck to paycheck. I also get babysitters at least once a week to go out. I just want to do so on the weekends and not week nights when I have to get up so early.
I have not yet talked to one single dad that was in as good of shape as I am financially. They may be out there, but I have not come across any yet.
1. You are broke. You can't support your kids, so you are on public assistance.
2. You have you kids all the time because it sounds like dad(s) are not in their life.
3. The number of their kids plus my kids, equals way to many kids for any sane person to deal with. . . . perhaps you should have thought about this as you were having them.
Why don't you get alimony/child support? Much preferable (to the rest of us) than food stamps and Medicaid.
1. You are broke. You can't support your kids, so you are on public assistance.
2. You have you kids all the time because it sounds like dad(s) are not in their life.
3. The number of their kids plus my kids, equals way to many kids for any sane person to deal with. . . . perhaps you should have thought about this as you were having them.
Why don't you get alimony/child support? Much preferable (to the rest of us) than food stamps and Medicaid.
I agree!
Op , You need to be financially stable before you get into a serious relationship.
You are calling the kettle black when you are broke.
You need to focus on your children and providing for them not on dating.
1. You are broke. You can't support your kids, so you are on public assistance.
2. You have you kids all the time because it sounds like dad(s) are not in their life.
3. The number of their kids plus my kids, equals way to many kids for any sane person to deal with. . . . perhaps you should have thought about this as you were having them.
Why don't you get alimony/child support? Much preferable (to the rest of us) than food stamps and Medicaid.
I am not broke. I get assistance because I qualify for it.
I had two kids because that is the number I felt completed my family. Unfortunately my sons father decided he did not want to remain part of said family.
I have tried to collect child support. Just because I say I want it, does not mean it will magically appear.
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