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Hi everyone,so here's the deal,I use facebook for meeting girls,I know,most will say that I should do it in person,but I have 2 problems that prevent that,I wrote them under,but the thing why I am opening the thread is that I want to know simply what to say to a girl you don't know at all on facebook if you want to meet her? I know,I know,why would I meet a unknown girl over facebook,well because I live in a small city and most girls are either taken or not interesting to me,but even when I am not searching I stumble upon a lot of girls on facebook that would be perfect for me,but I don't know them...so what should I tell them in the first message? I tried talking with a few girls,mostly with really stupid messages like ,,do I know you?,, and so on and some reply,some don't,one even turned out to be my current best friend,but that just doesn't really work.
2 reasons:first of all I am an introvert and really shy,not extremely,I can be the loudest in a group of people,especially around people I know,I am perfectly normal,but its impossible for me to go over to a person that I don't know and ask even what time it is,let alone ,,hit,, on a girl. Second thing is that I want to know things about a certain girl before I meet her,for example one time I saw this beautiful blonde,I didn't approach her and I stumbled on her on facebook few days later and she turned out to be an extreme...well **** and before that I had a almost same experience with a girl from school,I met her over facebook and although she looks extremely cute and so on,she is probably the most stupid person I have ever met,trust me,she doesn't even use grammar at all,so I simply want to avoid girls like that,but I can only do that by meeting people online,too bad that's still not a ,,thing,,.
Take yourself off of the computer and put yourself out into the world and walk up to a woman you might be interested in taking out on a date and introduce yourself and start talking to her.
The old saying "Beauty if skin deep" is true so you cannot put all of your eggs in the beauty basket when it comes to humans. All that beauty means nothing is there is no substance underneath it.
Take yourself off of the computer and put yourself out into the world and walk up to a woman you might be interested in taking out on a date and introduce yourself and start talking to her.
The old saying "Beauty if skin deep" is true so you cannot put all of your eggs in the beauty basket when it comes to humans. All that beauty means nothing is there is no substance underneath it.
I suppose you didn't even read my first post,I gave 2 reasons why I don't do that,2.nd one is kind of avoidable,but first isn't.
@coffee18
How is it any weirder than an unknown stranger randomly starting to talk to you in the street and even weirder giving you a compliment right away? People who don't reply are kind of jerks,except if someone twice as old or something like that wants to meet you. And it is only weird on facebook,I know at least 4 or 5 sites where people generally meet each other and that's more or less the whole point of the sites,but unfortunately very little people use those sites. (I don't mean dating sites)
Get off the computer and learn to hit on women "in real life". It'll improve your personality by increasing your overall confidence which will carry over into other aspects of your life.
I assume any strange men who message me randomly on FB are Nigerian scammers. I report all of them.
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