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Old 12-27-2014, 02:00 PM
 
Location: California
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It's really awkward because I became friends with him when he moved in with my neighbor. My neighbor and him are dating though. I thought it was always kinda sweet because he always seemed so in love with her, and he always made a point of how much she mattered to him. He even said to me "No other girl matters." "I don't want any other girl, she is definitely the one for me." Well I had to go out with him to the mall before Christmas, since I am friends with his girlfriend he thought I would know what she likes.

Well, it was a very awkward outing! He told me to hold his hand, and I said "No." he said "Umm...like friends?" I said "We can be friends without holding hands." Then he said to store clerks "I am buying for my girlfriend." He pointed at me when he said it. Then he said "I think I am the hottest guy at this mall, and you are the hottest girl at this mall." Then when his friend called he said "I'm with my girl...my girlfriend....or whatever she is." WHAT?!?! It was so bizarre to me! When I went to a Christmas Party he was there without his girlfriend. He kept referring to me as his girlfriend. Then when I walked away because I was embarrassed. He said "Why do you keep denying it?" "What's your problem?" "Why are you getting so awkward about it?" I said "DO I REALLY HAVE TO EXPLAIN MYSELF??" "YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!" He didn't say anything.

What is up with that? He always seems to be in love with her, and says he wants "no other girl", then why does he make things awkward by saying I am his "girlfriend" when I am NOT? It's when we are alone he does this.
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Old 12-27-2014, 02:03 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Run....

Run as far and fast as you possibly can!
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Old 12-27-2014, 02:17 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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Run....

Run as far and fast as you possibly can!
^This. He doesn't respect his current relationship and he doesn't respect you or your boundaries.
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Old 12-27-2014, 02:20 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Another weirdo.

I would not be alone with him. Ever.
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Old 12-27-2014, 02:23 PM
 
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It's really awkward because I became friends with him when he moved in with my neighbor. My neighbor and him are dating though. I thought it was always kinda sweet because he always seemed so in love with her, and he always made a point of how much she mattered to him. He even said to me "No other girl matters." "I don't want any other girl, she is definitely the one for me." Well I had to go out with him to the mall before Christmas, since I am friends with his girlfriend he thought I would know what she likes.

Well, it was a very awkward outing! He told me to hold his hand, and I said "No." he said "Umm...like friends?" I said "We can be friends without holding hands." Then he said to store clerks "I am buying for my girlfriend." He pointed at me when he said it. Then he said "I think I am the hottest guy at this mall, and you are the hottest girl at this mall." Then when his friend called he said "I'm with my girl...my girlfriend....or whatever she is." WHAT?!?! It was so bizarre to me! When I went to a Christmas Party he was there without his girlfriend. He kept referring to me as his girlfriend. Then when I walked away because I was embarrassed. He said "Why do you keep denying it?" "What's your problem?" "Why are you getting so awkward about it?" I said "DO I REALLY HAVE TO EXPLAIN MYSELF??" "YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!" He didn't say anything.

What is up with that? He always seems to be in love with her, and says he wants "no other girl", then why does he make things awkward by saying I am his "girlfriend" when I am NOT? It's when we are alone he does this.
It's a front. He was saying this in hopes it will appeal to you. What is their relationship really like?
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Old 12-27-2014, 02:55 PM
 
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What is up with that?


You're friends with a creepy, strange, bizarre dude. That's what's up with that.
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Old 12-27-2014, 03:05 PM
 
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He sounds like a loon. Does he drink a lot or take many drugs?
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Old 12-27-2014, 03:09 PM
 
Location: Cape Coma Florida
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He's total SCUM and you need to remove him from your life as fast as you possibly can, and tell the woman he's lying to what you posted here! He's the lowest form of male life on earth and you have to ditch him fast! He's an oxygen thief and a waste of skin! Cut off all contact with him immediately!
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Old 12-27-2014, 03:21 PM
 
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Whatever you do, don't even think of being flattered by what he's doing. It's meaningless douchenozzlery and has nothing to do with you.
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Old 12-27-2014, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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You should tell his "real" girlfriend. Seems like he is trying to double dip.
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