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View Poll Results: If someone you were/are attracted to always ignored your attempts to reach out to them
Yes. Meet up for a date, I'm still interested. 11 30.56%
No. They had their chance, its too late now. 25 69.44%
Voters: 36. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-02-2015, 10:52 PM
 
Location: Pa
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A Google search had brought up a Wikipedia artcile which said that "SKIP-BO is a commercial version of the card game Spite and Malice". I didn't deem to mention that the words "spite" and "malice" were used in the actual name of an actual game but just mentioned just the actual words "spite" and "malice" separately . . . which, I surmised, was what you were trying to convey in your choice of the word "Skipbo".
No I wasn't trying to be mean to him, he said play material. Therefore I used a children's card game as a joke as to playing games.
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Old 01-02-2015, 11:26 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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I need more context, maybe there is something you don't know, a unknown variable that would reasonably explain the change in interest.
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Old 01-02-2015, 11:28 PM
 
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If you liked her, you might want to see where it goes. Maybe the timing or circumstances were off for her back then, I know I see different things in people even a few years ago. People change and grow.
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Old 01-02-2015, 11:30 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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I have skipbo.
I need to get off the net, or CD, because my read skim said SKIN BO and I though maybe that was a swing game or involved a swing
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Old 01-02-2015, 11:32 PM
 
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Nope. I'd ignore them. No discussion.
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Old 01-03-2015, 10:28 AM
 
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A Google search had brought up a Wikipedia artcile which said that "SKIP-BO is a commercial version of the card game Spite and Malice". I didn't deem to mention that the words "spite" and "malice" were used in the actual name of an actual game but just mentioned just the actual words "spite" and "malice" separately . . . which, I surmised, was what you were trying to convey in your choice of the word "Skipbo".
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No I wasn't trying to be mean to him, he said play material. Therefore I used a children's card game as a joke as to playing games.

I didn't at all try to imply that you were being "mean". It was clear that you were being playful and humorous . . . just as I am often times humorous in my postings.
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Old 01-03-2015, 11:21 AM
 
Location: Pa
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I need to get off the net, or CD, because my read skim said SKIN BO and I though maybe that was a swing game or involved a swing
Whoah....no swinger here.
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I didn't at all try to imply that you were being "mean". It was clear that you were being playful and humorous . . . just as I am often times humorous in my postings.
Alrighty then.lol
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Old 01-03-2015, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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It honestly depends on the situation. Why were those attempts initially ignored?

If there were personal issues going on behind the scenes that the person did not disclose due to being private, but say .. a sick relative, issues with a child, issues with an ex, etc .. that they didn't want to drag someone else into, but now those are taken care of? Would it still be fair to reject them?

My divorce / custody process was brutal, and during the height of my litigation (divorce already final but custody still in litigation) I did not feel I could fairly focus on cultivating a relationship while I had the litigation on my mind, so I preferred to stay uninvolved with people during that time. Now that is all over with, I'm open to meeting and connecting with new people.
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Old 01-03-2015, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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If someone you were/are attracted to always ignored your attempts to reach out to them then one day they reach out to you how do you react?

Accept his/her offer for a date/coffee or do you ignore them like he/she did to you?
Depends on how you feel at the time.
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Old 01-03-2015, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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[quote=Raena77;37869460]Whoah....no swinger here.

Sorry now will a night of sleep
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