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I go to the bank to withdraw cash often to avoid ATM machines for security reasons. I visit various tellers but there is this one teller and sometime she chats with me while serving. She always talks about tennis whether I bought a new racquet since I told her one day I like playing tenns, even told me about some courts. I sometime feel she hopes I would invite her out for a day to play tennis with me. She told me she never played before.
To me I would feel a bit awkward that I'm hanging out/date with someone who knows what is in my bank account.
What would you guys do?
If you're both into tennis, that's total plausible deniability. You're asking her out to do an activity, not necessarily a "date." This is the perfect setup, go for it.
If she agrees, awesome! Go play tennis and set up a more social meeting at the end.
Simple - ask. Never know until you try. And go in with no expectations, being ready to handle rejection yet not be afraid to continue to see her in her teller role.
I go to the bank to withdraw cash often to avoid ATM machines for security reasons. I visit various tellers but there is this one teller and sometime she chats with me while serving. She always talks about tennis whether I bought a new racquet since I told her one day I like playing tenns, even told me about some courts. I sometime feel she hopes I would invite her out for a day to play tennis with me. She told me she never played before.
To me I would feel a bit awkward that I'm hanging out/date with someone who knows what is in my bank account.
What would you guys do?
I wouldn't worry about her knowing whats in your bank account. She sees accounts all day and probably couldn't care less. Ask her.
We had another member in your same situation. The teller was flirting heavily with him. He finally took the bait. It was a train wreck. Most workplaces have rules against dating the customers.
We had another member in your same situation. The teller was flirting heavily with him. He finally took the bait. It was a train wreck. Most workplaces have rules against dating the customers.
I certainly agree. I forgot to mention this. This not only apply to bank tellers but other places where customer interaction occurs.
I caught my current ex with his bank teller a week and a half after I dumped him (I dumped him for good reason, not to do with his bank teller). When asked, he sheepishly told me that she wanted him and that I didn't. She gave him her phone number two months prior... I found out later than she didn't last past a few weeks with him, not enough in common. He's loaded financially, so I'm sure that has something to do with the her chase.
I certainly agree. I forgot to mention this. This not only apply to bank tellers but other places where customer interaction occurs.
Those rules are there for a reason. I vaguely recall that the guy who gave in and dated the teller said he was concerned at first that she had access not only to his bank info, but to his phone number, etc. In the end, it turned out that she was flirting with him because she knew the size of his account, or his income stream, or something. It's really best not to give into temptation.
I go to the bank to withdraw cash often to avoid ATM machines for security reasons. I visit various tellers but there is this one teller and sometime she chats with me while serving. She always talks about tennis whether I bought a new racquet since I told her one day I like playing tenns, even told me about some courts. I sometime feel she hopes I would invite her out for a day to play tennis with me. She told me she never played before.
To me I would feel a bit awkward that I'm hanging out/date with someone who knows what is in my bank account.
What would you guys do?
Ask her to play tennis sometime and take it from there. If she says no, brush it off and don't let it change anything in your dealings with her at the bank.
On the whole though, I don't like the idea of asking people out who are doing their job. It has too much of a "cornered" feel to it.
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